We receive a lot of feedback from clients, some of them are stories worth sharing. This story came as a comment to the post ‘Top-5 reasons to marry a Russian woman‘. Let’s see what does it take to make it happen and what the process involves.
Michael: “The process of marrying a Russian woman is not easy but it is well worth it”
I agree with all the points made by Elena and also the points made by some of the ladies above.
Having recently become engaged to a lovely Russian lady from Moscow I met here on the website I would have to say I’ve observed these qualities within her. I’d also say that in addition to these qualities Russian women are very resilient and strong. By strong I don’t mean in an aggressive way but in a way that demonstrates a true depth if character and integrity. Many women on the website are single parents raising children, doing all the chores and working to support their families, often without help from their ex-husband or the government. They do this willingly and don’t complain -they just do it.
Since I met my fiancé I have come to appreciate more and more what a truly remarkable woman she is. She doesn’t want money or a passport, she simply wants to be loved and supported emotionally. I genuinely believe that the vast majority of women here on EM are the same.
Having said that there are challenges, in particular language and communication. Both the woman and man need to be patient and understanding with each other.
Tips and advice
My advice for the men on this website is simple. Be serious and genuine with the ladies here – they don’t want to ‘hook up’ for some ‘fun’ or a pen pal. They want a genuine relationship – respect that and don’t play games. Also, be realistic about your expectations – do you really want a Russian woman and do you know your responsibilities? Also, large age differences (greater than 15 years) often don’t work.
The process for bringing a lady (and potentially her children) to you and to marry her is time consuming and very expensive. And once they’re with you you’ll need to support her (and her children). Men need to seriously consider this because when they arrive your expenses will go up dramatically – schooling, food, an extra car, insurance, clothing and more. This is normal and not the woman’s fault.
It is a man’s responsibility to plan and prepare for this. When a woman agrees to marry you and leave her home, her job, her family, her friends and her entire support network it is a very big thing for her. She will be alone, potentially afraid and initially very stressed, and when she has children this is even more — so be gentle and understanding.
Notwithstanding all of the above I genuinely believe that Russian women are amazing. Yes, they are stunningly beautiful but they are loving and caring and resilient. The process of marrying a Russian woman is not easy but it is well worth it when you think of it in terms of finding your life partner and future love.
More true life stories:
- Saulo (Canada) & Ksenia (Russia): Our international dating success story
- Fred (USA) and Svetlana (Russia): The story of how we met and fell in love
- Anastasia & Tony love story (Russia, USA): Married for 3 years, have a baby
- How to meet a real Russian girl for dating online: The story of Max and Anastasia (Mexico, Russia)
I think many people come to sites like Elena’s Models and see it like any other dating site common in online dating. However, the article does point to an important difference that this is not about dating but actually committing to finding a life partner and moving forward to marry Russian women or eastern European women. I have shown a couple of my mates and they thought they might give it a go so I asked: ” are you going to marry a Russian?”. Suddenly they stuttered and responded ” oh well not sure about that, just test the waters”… Read more »
Frank, this is a very good point! If you are sure you want a life partner, this is the website for you, because the Russian women who join do wish to marry a man from another country and they are ready to make it happen, if they meet the right guy.
great story. I liked got a lot of positive emotions
I wish all the man will follow this amazing advises! It’s very difficult for a lot of women to leave their usual life and probably move to another country, so you should understand all the responsibilities you will get. Love, support and trust are the things that can save the marriage, as well as patience and understanding. I wish you all to find your true love and become as happy as this couple, living in your own villa with your beloved family and close friends hanging around!!