Men who are dating mature Russian ladies online notice distinct differences between them and young girls from Moscow, St. Petersburg, and other large cities. Ladies aged 30+ are calmer, more agreeable, balanced and established, guys might observe. But there are also other major changes that happen in the views on life once a woman passes this mark.

Top 10 differences that separate mature Russian women from younger girls

Ladies of different ages behave distinctly because of the major notion about the woman’s value in life. This central concept forms the basis of the system of values of any person in Russia.

• A woman’s happiness is in her family: Husband and kids.

Unless a mature Russian lady has a husband, she feels inferior to other females who are married. In fact, she isn’t even allowed by the society to feel happy — because a woman’s happiness is in her family, the social norm states.

If she has no family of her own, then she cannot be happy, by definition. Young girls can still be searching, but older ladies have to have already accomplished this major goal. It’s like for a college graduate to be unemployed for years, questions rise about his abilities and value.

This is why older females 30+ act and behave differently as compared to girls 18-25.

Here are the top-10 things that separate them.

In Russia, there are more women than men in large cities from the age 25 and onwards. Many females are simply unable to find a partner.

1. Mature Russian females really want a relationship

Russian girls should be married by 21, local males believe, according to a recent survey. The females themselves think they need to find a husband by 25, the same research uncovered.

By the age of 27 a girl starts feeling extremely uncomfortable without having a husband or a long-term partner. She is being told by basically everyone she knows that she needs to urgently find a match, or she will be alone for life.

After the age of 30, no one holds any hope for her being able to pair up. People start telling the mature lady she needs to “have a child for herself”, so that she doesn’t have to die alone.

Yes, it’s that harsh. Any neighbour residing in the same building (Russians typically live in high-rise apartment buildings) feels entitled to give her a piece of advice on her reproduction and marital options, without being asked. The same goes for colleagues at work, relatives, close and distant, as well as classmates and friends. It happens non-stop daily and feels very uncomfortable for the mature female.

Males treat the mature lady as a third-grade citizen, because there is obviously something wrong with her, since she didn’t manage to snatch a husband, which is, as everyone knows, every decent woman’s primary goal in life.

Because there are substantially more women than men in Russia (86 males for 100 females), guys start feeling empowered and highly desirable after 30, if they are still single.

For girls it’s quite the opposite. The demographic discrepancies in Russia start in cities in the group of 25+, so from this time onwards single girls don’t get as many suitors as before, when they were young and there were more males than females of the same age.

It’s quite a shocking change for a single Russian girl, from being the centre of the party she suddenly realizes no one wants a relationship with her anymore, thinking they are able to find a better option among inexperienced and fresh 18-year-olds.

What kind of guys wish to entertain relations with teenage girls, would you ask? Russian guys. Dating rules in Russia promote immature attitudes among females, where she has to completely surrender to a man’s lead. It’s easy for a younger girl to do it, especially with an older guy.

A mature woman doesn’t feel comfortable in this scheme, so it becomes harder for her to find a match, acting according to the local dating protocol.

She would prefer to find a true partner in a man, but local males find it easier to date teenagers than to build a mature relationship with someone their age.

Anyway, men in Russia, too, get married early and the good ones stay committed to their families. So, by the age of 30 good guys are married. It’s only the ones who are players that are still unattached.

2. Mature women embrace their sexuality

Younger females still believe they need to delay intimacy for a as long as possible. Mature ladies have learned more about life and really enjoy intimacy in a relationship.

Mature women enjoy intimacy when dating, as opposed to young girls who try to delay it for as long as possible.

3.Ladies 30+ with kids have little chance on the local dating market

“No one wants to deal with another man’s kids,” all females in Russia are convinced, based on interactions with local guys.

Because of patronizing and chauvinistic attitudes of local males (explained by a mature Russian lady in this post), many young wives find it unbearable to continue maintaining the marriage. They are being handled a short stick in all areas of the family life: She has to cook, clean, shop, wash, iron, take care of the kids (these all are “women’s duties” in a marriage), only hoping for “help” from the husband (like carrying heavy bags from a store, most Russians still don’t own cars and women have to carry the groceries in bags from the store walking home).

At the same time most Russian guys believe it is OK to have other ladies to spend time with, while the wife is cooking, cleaning, and taking care of kids at home. There are plenty of 18-year-olds who dream to get married by 21… The womanizing husbands don’t inform these young teens they are married with kids and simply seek entertainment.

Of course, not all Russian men are like this. But enough of them are, this is why the divorce rate in Russia is 60% for the last decade. Every third marriage will dissolve within the first 3 years, statistics hold. Usually a woman will have a child from this marriage — that’s the goal of the marriage, to have kids, according to the major notion, which we have discussed in the beginning of this post.

Mature ladies 30+ often have kids, which in Russia severely limits their options to date or be considered a good candidature for a long-term partnership. Younger girls don’t have children, so they are carefree and feel empowered to take a pick among guys of their age, who want a partner.

Mature Russian women with kids value a man wanting a relationship much more.

Many ladies have grown up kids ready to move on in life, so she can now direct all her love and attention at her new partner. Russians have kids early, so many females who are in their thirties have kids over 18. Now it’s all about her own pleasure and enjoyment of life.

4. If a woman 30+ has no kids, she is desperate to have them

According to the same notion (“A woman’s happiness is in her family”), if a mature Russian lady 30+ doesn’t have a child, she feels absolutely desperate to have one. The closer she is to 40, the more she wishes for someone suitable to have kids with.

Girls under 25 know they still have time, so they are picky about admirers.

5. Mature ladies can provide for themselves

In Russia, the societal norm is that the male is supposed to provide for the family. Young girls often don’t concern themselves with everyday survival, many of them still study and live with their parents.

In fact, kids in Russia usually reside with parents until they get married — this is one more reason why people get hitched early, to get away from the overbearing folks.

By the age of 30 most Russian ladies already can provide for themselves and usually live on their own. They have truly moved to a mature style of existence, as opposed to still living the life of a child.

6. Older females are more stable

Because younger girls remain under a strong influence of their parents, their system of values is still not stable. Females 30+ have already learned a great deal about themselves, got experiences, and realized what they truly need and want in life.

They have found their passions, developed their hobbies, they have a much stronger sense of self.

Mature Russian ladies value men for their personality and character, and not for the ability to give her a better life.

7. Mature ladies value foreign men for their character, rather than the ability to give her a better life

Having time for herself, because she doesn’t have to serve a man 24/7, a single lady starts self-education and improvement. They start questioning doctrines of their parents and TV, and this is why they are coming on dating sites to meet foreign men.

The major reason why mature Russian women do it is because they believe that foreign men have stronger family values and have more respect to females. In case of girls under 25, they still are very undeveloped in their views and for them a better lifestyle than at home is the major factor.

8. Mature Russian women have learned style and grooming

Grooming and deportment is essential in Russia for a female to be considered worthy. Unless she looks beautiful, her value will not be too high in the society. A Russian woman has to be beautiful, to be even considered an acceptable member of the society.

These skills come handy, if you would like to see a beautiful, physically fit, and stylish woman by your side, — and what man wouldn’t?

Dating women over 30 has its advantages.

9. Mature Russian ladies are resilient

Men who have the experience of dating mature Russian females often praise their resilience. Living in a harsh environment where one has to work very hard to survive and move ahead, without a government’s support, makes a person humble and self-sufficient.

Because most of the time a mature lady lived by herself, she had to learn to survive by herself. It’s like a person from a farm as compared to a city slicker.

10. They know hardship and can appreciate a good thing

Russian ladies get wise at a much younger age, due to many hardships they had to go through in life. The maturity of Russian women who are 30 would be on the level of 10-15 years older western females, who didn’t have to endure that much. This means, in the maturity level you, being 10-15 years older, will be on the same level and it will be easy for you to connect.

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