Verified profiles became a kind of smokescreen for pay-per-letter sites. After my recent article about fake Russian brides some men asked about differentiating between real profiles and false profiles on such sites.
They are missing the point.
It’s not about how real the profile is. The problem is that men are forced to pay for each message — including chats — and the messages are written with the goal of earning money, not developing a relationship. No matter how “real” the profile is. The messages for which men pay, they are not real.
These sites in essence turned into virtual escorts. Guys are given an experience of an ideal “online girlfriend”. They feel like kings: he logs in to the site, in a minute he is swamped with chat requests and messages from gorgeous girls. Each of these girls seems to be eager to chat and become his sweetheart. They all “want you”.
Sure. Just pay $5 per letter. Maybe $2 if you are on a cheaper PPL site.
The essence of the service doesn’t change. It’s all about sweet talk.
The sweet chats and messages, which you imagine to be real.
To understand how it works, just think of a guy who tries to get into a girl’s pants by telling her she looks better than her photos, even though it’s not even remotely true. Showering her with compliments, only to get something from her.
As long as you pay for each letter, your communication won’t be real. This is the point.
All types of manipulators work this way: Telling people what they want to hear.
That’s how PPL “brides” work: Telling guys things they want to hear. How amazing he is, how she doesn’t care for the age difference, or his weight, or his money. How she wants to be with him. How she cannot sleep at night thinking about him…
Yes, the majority of these messages are probably written by “writers” specially hired to type online chats and letters. Maybe some are written by the same women whose photos are seen in the profiles, but they still write them in order to earn money, not to build relationships.
So, instead of worrying how “real” the profile is, be concerned how real your communication is.
And for as long as you pay for each letter, they won’t be “real”. They will be a product you are paying for.
Real relationships start with real communication. On the photo: Simon and Tatsiana, one of Elena’s Models happy couples, with their newborn baby.
Read also:
- Fake profiles on dating sites — How to spot them?
- 4 Phrases Russian Women Cannot Resist
- Do You Want To Correspond for Months? Then You Need To Read This
- The Fool Proof Method of Dating Russian Brides
You will laugh at this reverse psychology. Those Pay Per Letter scam websites are experts at providing western male fantasies for horrible men seeking inappropriate relationships with a girls the age of their grand daughter. Try telling the Russian Bride scammer whore you want to be her ‘Toy Boy’. And tell her that you are looking for a rich Couger (older woman than yourself). The Scammer Whore will immediately become very hostile. This is because these letters and chats are written by young female University students and married women working from home. I do not feel sorry for western men… Read more »
Jeff, I can see that you are completely unaware of this, and have no knowledge of self, but you are mentally ill and need some serious long term help. You’re obviously not a healthy and happy person, but a hate and rage filled misanthrope who despises everyone but himself, and plays at being vastly superior to others to cover a deep weakness and insecurity that gnaws at you every waking moment. You live in a world of your own creation that is disconnected from reality. I know this won’t work, because you are the type that pretends to be without… Read more »