It’s the new year and you still have an old profile. Let’s revamp your Elena’s Models profile to make it work for you!

5 tips to get more positive responses from Elena’s Models ladies

Would you like to get more ‘Yes” answers to your EOI’s and chat requests? Here is how.

1. To get more positive responses, write more

Yes, it’s that simple! Write more and you will get more positive responses. Even without the percentage of positive answers growing higher (we’ll get to that in a minute), by simply contacting more ladies you will be able to score more positive interest in return.

Most women on Elena’s Models never write to men! They are only waiting for the guys to show interest first.

(It’s not your usual pay-per-letter (PPL) ‘pseudo dating’ site with Ukrainian brides where you are likely to be swamped with requests from gorgeous girls. You already know that this interest is not real, right? If not, go here to discover why so many women contact you on PPL sites and want to talk to you at $2 per message.)

EM is just a regular dating site like eHarmony or Match.com, only with ladies who live in Russia and Ukraine, who are interested in meeting a partner from another country. In fact, the women would be interested in a serious relationship with someone living in their home countries, they just can’t meet the right guy who also wants something long-lasting.

So, don’t be too cocky about ‘picking a desperate woman wanting a better life’ or even thinking something remotely similar. The ladies who register on EM speak English, have careers, the only thing that is missing in their lives — a good man to share it with.

It may be you, if you initiate the contact!

TIP: Upgrade to Platinum if you signed up as a Gold Member. This will allow you to contact as many women as you wish and send them a direct message straight away, instead of an EOI. Another advantage: Profiles of Platinum members are showing higher in search results, so more women will see it and possibly contact you first.

Russian, Ukrainian women are used to waiting for men to contact them. This is the typical way how dating works in their countries.

2. Update your photo

We’ve written tons of tips on photos previously, but the basics remain the same:

• Put on a white shirt, slacks and a jacket.
• Get in a place with a nice background. If you can, get in a beautiful place like a cafe on water or beach. If you can’t, a light-colored wall in your house will do.
• Make sure the lighting is good. For the best results, make photos outside with the natural light, but if this is not possible, switch on all the lights and position yourself closer to a window during the day.
• Smile! You look more attractive when you smile.
• Take tons of photos (or have a friend to take them for you) and pick the best. Take at least 20. Use the time delay function on your smart phone and the front camera — it will take you a few minutes, but you will be able to do it by yourself. Position the camera against a book or a wall, press the button and walk to the position. It will look like someone else took your photo!

Even without a professional photographer, you will be able to make a decent photo, if you spend a couple of hours on that. But it will save you from countless rejections!

Slavic girls are just crazy about men in suits. Don’t ask why! It’s a mystery that cannot be solved. Just use it to your advantage!

• Use this new picture as your main photo in the profile.
• Include the phrase that your photo has been taken in January 2019. Girls are worried about men who post old photos, too!

A man in suit instantly pulls attention of Slavic girls and you are likely to double your positive response rate.

3. Include the “magical phrase” in your profile

There are certain magical phrases that make Russian, Ukrainian women instantly interested in a man.

Russian, Ukrainian guys know that and use it to their advantage. Now we are going to unveil this secret for you.

Use one of these phrases on top of your Message, if you want a positive response to your interest of mail:

• I am looking for a wife.
• I want to get married to a good woman.
• I want to create a family.
• I am looking only for a serious relationship that will lead to a marriage.

Here, you have it!

It’s a closely guarded secret that we are only revealing to our trusted members.

True love is serious and forever, Slavic women believe. They don’t believe in short-term flings. Unless you say that you are looking for a wife, they don’t feel confident about starting communication with you.

4. Turn negatives into positives

This one is easy. Check your profile’s text and see if there are any negatives, things that you don’t want, don’t like etc.

Change these sentences into positive ones. For instance, instead of saying, “I don’t want to correspond for a long time”, type, “I know what I want and I hope to correspond for short time only, and then we should meet”.

Instead of writing, “I don’t want a woman with a lot of baggage”, say, “My future wife is ready to move forward with her life and start a great relationship with the right person.”

How you express your desires and wishes is important, it shows how you think: Is the glass half full? Or is it half empty?

Change the negatives in your profile into positives to create a better vibe.

5. Include just the right amount of information

Social scientists and online dating consultants say that the best length of a free-input field in a profile (personality, interest, message, partner requirements) is about 300 characters (not words!).

More than that or less than that, you will get fewer responses back.

Apparently, this is about the amount of writing a person in our time has the attention span for.

You certainly should also answer all questions of the standard questionnaire (especially about your job and occupation, that is known to be important for women), as well as marital status and desire to have kids.

Are you looking for a younger woman? Read on.

This quick revamp can improve your positive response rate by 50% or more!

By the way, if you are looking for a woman who is much younger than you, include in your profile the answer why you want a wife who could be your daughter.

That’s the major question I am getting from women on our site: “Why only men who are 15-20 years older are writing to me? What do they want?”

So, if this is the case, it would be wise to include the answer to this question in your profile.

Possible variants:

• I am looking for a younger partner because I am very energetic and need a woman who can keep up with me.
• I seek a younger woman because I want to have kids.

Or think of your own reasons and present them in a positive way. This way, the woman can find an answer in your profile instantly rather than being bewildered by the fact you seek someone a generation or two younger.

It’s her choice, of course, whether she will decide to accept you or not, but stating your reasons will give you a better chance to hear back from her.

All the best with the new, improved profile and we wish you to find a lasting love in 2019!

Read also:

• Dating tips by Elena Petrova
• Elena Petrova: ‘Photos and videos are crucial to your success’
• Are you lonely and want to share your life with someone special?
• I am not sure I want a Russian wife, but I am curios. Is it still OK to chat to women and what should I say?