Investigative report from Sunday Night (Channel 7, Australia) revealed the growing popularity of dating in Ukraine and its recognition as the matchmaking capital of the world. In its edition from 14 October 2018, reporter Matt Doran and the team followed Australian and American men seeking love in the largest European country and a former Soviet Union republic.
An affair with a foreigner: Why not?
Ukraine “has become the go-to destination for Western men seeking Eastern European brides”, summarized Sunday Night‘s note on its website with the recording of the broadcast.
The segment under the title “A Foreign Affair” raises the typical questions people ask when hearing about this type of dating, such as:
- Why would a man seek to meet someone in another country?
- Do these men go to Ukraine because they couldn’t get a local woman?
- Isn’t there something improper about men wanting to be involved with women from a foreign country?
- Why do Ukrainian women want to date foreign men?
And so on.
The men interviewed on the program vary in age and come from different backgrounds. They explain that they simply feel lonely and want someone to share their lives with. (Aren’t we all?)
The reason why Ukrainian women want to date foreigners is also clearly spelled out: The lack of available men.
Ukraine has some of the world’s worst male to female ratios on the planet, with only 86 men for 100 women. Once people pair up, as most grownups tend to do, there is even less chance for single girls to find a match: Eligible bachelors are in a minority with many women trying to woo the same potential boyfriend.
Romance Tours vs. Online Dating: 10 comparisons
The reporters chose to follow a group of men on a romance tour, while the majority of international couples start via online dating.
There are many reasons for that. Here are the top 10.
1. Online dating is much cheaper than tours.
The Gold subscription to Elenasmodels.com starts from $129 and the price of a romance tour is in thousands of dollars. It’s easier and more affordable to test the waters via online dating than with a tour.
2. Romance tours are more scripted than real.
How real is reality TV? Someone with a camera follows you and films everything you and your date are doing. Tours are a bit like that. There is a translator that follows you on the dates and the group leader organizing events and meetings. With online dating, you are talking one-to-one with another person, including free video meetings on Skype or WhatsApp, daily contact for weeks or months prior to your visit. And if it doesn’t work, you don’t need to spend money on travel, accommodation, and meals.
3. You don’t need a paid translator with online dating.
Most women who seek a partner on Elenasmodels.com can speak English. If a woman’s English is not perfectly fluent, there is the ability to use online translator, which is free, as opposed to a paid interpreter at $25/hour.
4. You don’t need to invest a lot of money before knowing there is a match.
Spending $5,000 on a romance tour is a sizable expense, before even knowing there is someone worth meeting. If you don’t want to invest so much money upfront, online dating offers a great opportunity to “try before you buy”.
5. You can move at your own pace.
With the tour, you are always on schedule. From socials where you have a limited time to talk to 3-4 women at your table before you are required to move to another table, organized in “speed dating” manner, to bus schedule when you have to hop on the bus the next day, even though you may think you’ve made a connection. With online singles portals, you can spend as much time chatting as you wish. Successful couples on Elenasmodels.com report talking for hours on Skype, which is very different to having just a short time to make evaluation.
6. You can travel by yourself much cheaper.
In fact, you can set up your travel arrangements in any way you wish: From a budget hostel to a 5-star hotel. Your own private travel guide — your online girlfriend — will be happy to pick you from the airport and show you around. The price of a romance tour includes paying for the work of tour managers and organizers, rent of nightclubs where group sessions of meeting women are organized, etc.
7. You will be able to spend as much time in one place as you wish.
When you start with dating online and then come to meet a woman, it’s up to you how much time you want to spend. You can, for example, simply visit for a weekend to see if there is strong mutual chemistry. Or you may wish to book a longer vacation to be able to really spend time together and get to know each other, if you feel this is the right thing to do.
8. Some women would never come to socials, but they date online.
Just like you probably don’t know many people doing “speed dating”, but nearly every single person is using online dating sites and apps, there are many women who simply would never come to a social. You cannot meet them at an even, but you can meet thousands of women via online dating. On Elenasmodels, thousands of women login every day and they are currently actively seeking a match.
9. The next day there is another bus.
Even if you feel that there is some potential, there is another bus with foreign love seekers the next day when you leave, with women from romance tours socials going to many events. With online dating, you are meeting a woman who is waiting for you to arrive and there is are no group events to detract any of you from building a great connection.
10. No mediators.
The whole concept of romance tours is built on the platform of “someone holding your hand”. While it may seem like a viable idea, the majority of adults don’t go on dates with someone else by their side. With romance tours, there is little room to move around, from people in the group on the bus, to the type of women you are going to meet on socials, which is not up to you.
With Elenasmodels membership options, you are able to communicate directly without mediators from day #1, share your contact information, exchange videos and photos from your daily life, all of it absolutely free, with no pay-per-message and unlimited communication.
You can get more contacts with your membership plan at any time. There are women registering daily, hundreds of profiles approved every week. If you want more dates and it doesn’t work with this lady, you are able more contacts on EM instantly at no extra cost.
With romance tours, it’s a notorious occurrence that guys start dating the translator. Because it’s really hard to fall in love with the presence of a mediator or with someone who doesn’t speak to you directly.
Comparing potential success from online dating and romance tours, it’s fair to say that websites for international singles such as Elenasmodels.com have just as much chance to bring you success — and maybe even higher.
Photos: Screengrab from the segment ‘A Foreign Affair’ Sunday Night (Channel 7, Australia)
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Elena, I joined your site a few days ago as a free member. As of right now, my profile is hidden, because before I upgrade to a plan to try to find a wife, I would like to ask you how Ukraine women feel about interracial dating? I’m a 50 year old Hispanic, though I don’t have any accent or speak Spanish (I’ve lived in the United States my entire life, and my family was raised to speak English). Are Ukraine women concerned about skin color or nationality, or are they (I hope) more concerned about character, personality and chemistry… Read more »
Pete, Ukrainian women don’t see Hispanic people different from Caucasians. They actually call all of them “white”. See also Success stories on our site, we have many Ukrainian, Russian women who married men of different ethnic backgrounds.
I pretty sure that A Foreign Affair is a PPL site as well. I’ve noticed that there were a lot of women from other PPL sites listed on their website. If you YouTube search A Foreign Affair, there are a few videos of the girls explaining that they go for the free food and drinks and aren’t really interested in foreign men. If you think about it, if the women were truly interested in a foreign man, wouldn’t they learn some of the man’s language so you really don’t need a translator? I know, I’ve only really started to become… Read more »
Jim, it’s true, AFA is a pay-per-letter website and they use agents in Ukraine, pay commissions on letters sent through the site.
EM doesn’t use any agents, we don’t buy profiles, don’t pay commissions for communication on our site — it’s free and unlimited. We also allow and encourage exchange of personal contact information, free communication via Skype, Viber, WhatsApp etc.
But this post is mostly about comparing online dating with the romance tours and what’s different.