While Russian women could be wonderful in love and dating, this single thing is their biggest downfall. If you are in a relationship with a lady from Russia, you need to know about that.

Russian women’s biggest downfall in love and dating

Being a Russian woman, I love to say good things about ladies of my homeland, and indeed, they possess a lot of great qualities. They are educated, smart, resilient, witty, take great pride in their appearance, and enjoy looking stylish and elegant.

Many guys asked me if the ladies on dating sites are real, because they look like models or TV presenters, but it’s actually nearly a requirement for a female in Russia to look like this at all times; such are the local standards of beauty and grooming.

But I also get annoyed with them fairly often. Usually this happens precisely because of this thing that I see as their biggest downfall.

From one hand, it could feel like not a big deal, and some may even see it as a good thing. But from my experience, it could really lead you astray, unless you are aware of this potential issue.

What I see as the biggest downfall typical for most Russian women in love and dating is their urge and constant desire “not to screw it up”.

I’ll explain what I mean by that.

For instance, I have over 100 thousand subscribers to my Russian Instagram account, and offer some courses with dating tips and advice. The most frequent type of questions I get from ladies is, “How do I tell a man about… this or that?”

The point is, there is usually nothing strange or damaging about the thing they want to ask a man about or tell him, but they are too scared to do it.

They want the relationship to work so much, that they are nearly paralysed by fear to do anything that can potentially damage the connection. This is why they may give answers that they think a man wants to hear, rather than tell openly how they feel or what they think.

At the same time, they don’t have any problem telling me about their issues, but they feel that being just as open with a man may scare him away or offend.

The reason for such irrational behaviour, I think, lies in the Russian tradition to blame the woman for anything wrong that happens within the relationship, because “it’s her duty to keep the fire going”. It is supposed to be her feminine power to keep the relationship together, and if the things fall apart, then it’s her fault.

Women want the relationship to work so much, that they are nearly paralysed by fear to do anything that can potentially damage the connection.

How to solve this issue?

To avoid this problem from surfacing, you may want to tell the Russian woman you are dating, “Sweetheart, I like you just the way you are. Please feel confident to tell me at any time how you feel. I won’t get upset or offended, because I care about you. I want us to be as open and honest with each other as possible, and I promise to do my best to always be straightforward with you.”

I remember my future husband telling me something like that, and how happy I was to hear it, and I think it made a great impact on the quality of our relationship. This helps a woman to stop worrying and gives her permission to be herself in connection with you.

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