If you are just thinking about dating a Russian woman, this is the most important thing you need to know – and it will take you only 2 minutes to learn. Ready?
The #1 thing you need to know about Russian women
In fact, even if you are simply friends with a female from Russia or have a new acquaintance of this heritage, this will help you to understand them better.
It may be different in other countries, but in Russia women are still brought up in this paradigm:
- A woman’s true happiness is in her family: her husband and kids. There is nothing that will replace it, no amount of career successes or money, no heights of fame or number of friends, or accomplishing any other life goal possible, such as traveling the world or inventing a cure for cancer. Nothing can replace the happiness a woman experiences when she has a man who loves her and kids that she takes care of.
Even if a Russian woman is career-oriented, has a great education and accomplishments, she will still wonder what it feels like when she has a loving husband and kids as her family to take care of.
The image of happiness that woman who is a mother and a wife achieves in her family is painted in such bright colours and imprinted on the subconscious level since childhood that it’s hard to get over.
As a comparison, a man’s true happiness, according to the same paradigm, is in his career and life purpose, which means a male is perfectly capable of living fully and happily without having a wife and kids.
In other words, a woman needs a man in her life, to be truly happy (a single mother without a “complete family” with the father in the picture isn’t considered as someone who could be truly, sincerely content with her life). But a man doesn’t need a woman in his life, to be truly happy and content with his achievements!
This paradigm explains the whole dating and family dynamics of Russia
If you understand this simple equation, you can grasp the undercurrents of intergender relations in Russia instantly. Especially when you take in consideration the fact that there are only 86 males for 100 females in Russia, demographics-wise, since late 1990s, and the picture doesn’t show any chance for improvement in the next decade or so.
“Why men in Russia die early?” is a question for another post, but to put it briefly, the cultural specifics are to blame: Males are also expected to be brave, which in Russia means “reckless”, as well as masculine, which means among all to be able to consume ridiculous amounts of alcohol in the circle of friends – this activity is often a bonding glue for a group of young guys.
As the result, some of them won’t survive to be 30+, and some young Russian women won’t be able to find a partner. It’s a sad reality that this cult of masculinity and macho (alpha male) personality results in.
This creates even more competition among females to land a good guy to “create a family with” (this phrase is magic to a Russian woman’s ear). It is also the reason why girls from Russia abhor short-term flings and dream about finding a “second half” to live happily ever after with since teens, as the most beautiful way to find the long-term bliss and contentment.
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