Each country has its own culture and women in Russia tend to be very close to their girlfriends. They share information about their lives and of course, their relationships.
Tip #10 for dating women from Russia: Girlfriends
Because women in Russia have very close friendships with their girlfriends, the future of your relationship may depend on their opinion about you.
Even if you have never met any of the girlfriends of the ladies you are talking to, they probably have heard about you from their friend, and offered their views on your relationship and how worthy you are as a candidate.
If you think about the process of employing a new person, this is very similar, in a way. You may only talk to an interviewer but there is a whole team that makes the decision about your potential for the company.
People in Russia live highly communal lives and rely on each other for support. For instance, in Russia it’s seen as cruel to send aging parents to a retirement home. Kids look after their aging parents, take them in if they can no longer look after themselves, or move in with them to assist. It is expected and considered normal.
Aunties and grandmothers often raise kids, if the mother has to work to provide for the family. Sometimes both parents find jobs in another city with higher wages and ask family members to look after the kids.
When it’s about dating, women in Russia usually chat to their girlfriends and ask for advice. This means, approval or disapproval of girlfriends may influence your perspectives with a lady.
(Of course, there are ladies who do not share any information with their girlfriends. But they are probably a minority.)
Using girlfriends to your advantage
The simplest thing is to invite girlfriends to a bar and pay for drinks for them, this will definitely give you plenty of points. But this is only possible if you visit the lady in her home town.
If you meet elsewhere, ask her about presents for friends and buy some cheap souvenirs she can take with her; there are always some options available.
If she sends you a group photo, tell her how beautiful all ladies are; she most likely will convey them your compliment.
If you are dressed in suit and tie on the main photo in your profile (or at least a collared formal shirt and pants), it will be much easier to get the girlfriends approval. You probably have photos from a recent wedding in a tux; that’s just the right image that girlfriends will approve.
The girlfriends don’t have a final say, of course. But if they support her choice, she feels so much better.
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