Some men see plenty of imaginary obstacles in search for a Russian bride. Let’s discuss them and why they are not real.
Imaginary obstacles in search for a bride in Russia
Certainly, there are some real obstacles such as distance. It is much easier to date someone living in your area.
But even if the distance is about 2-3 hours drive away, this could be worse than if the person lives internationally. Why? People often don’t want to move to another area and you spend months driving up and down and then the relationship goes nowhere.
It’s one of advantages when dating internationally, particularly with Russian women eager to become a bride (i.e. to get married), that the lady is ready to move from the start. There is no question whether she should be the one to move or it would be you.
The obstacle of languages has been pretty much removed by advanced software translators, which now can translate as you speak. We can say that language problems are all but imaginary.
Communication became easy with tools like Skype or WhatsApp available for free and offering face-to-face communication in real time on video, as well as audio conversations without paying for international connection. It was the game changer for dating long-distance when the ability to chat face-to-face appeared and became mainstream.
Today even friends and family most of the time communicate online via chat apps with video rather than catching up in person. It is not something special when you maintain (or start) a relationship via screen and then continue it face-to-face when the opportunity allows.
Advantages of meeting a partner internationally
- You are able to talk in length about your plans for life and ideas for the future while you are communicating online. Usually in real life people don’t spend time talking about these things before they become an item.
- You are able to think through this particular potential relationship before actually committing to it.
- And most importantly, you are able to meet a much better quality woman (prettier, younger, better educated) than the type of matches available for you at home.
This is why so many men are deciding to explore the option of search for a Russian bride. Even if it doesn’t work the way you hoped, you are only out of pocket about the cost of one dinner and movie date! At the same time, you are able to communicate with many women who could potentially be right for you, spend weeks or months discussing different things, your plans and aspirations.
Allowing hormones to take the back seat and look at the potential relationship logically is one important advantage that long-distance dating provides.
After all, you are only choosing a life partner once, right? Why not try to get the best possible partner you can?
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Hello Elena, Your articles are always enlightening and raise many important points, up for discussion. Much of what you say is true – unfortunately now the biggest obstacle, certainly for potential suitors from the UK like myself, is that travel into Russia can be dangerous now. The country is being held responsible for the attempted murder of two citizens on UK soul using a chemical weapon. And now they have detained a US citizen in so-called spying charges. With the political situation between Russia and Western countries worsening by the minute it seems, getting a relationship going and visiting could… Read more »
Lee, thank you for the feedback and congratulations with the wonderful news! We love hearing stories like this 🙂
Al the best in your relationship!
Is there somewhere you can go to see if the woman I’ve been talking too is a scammer? I can’t get a good read. She swears she’s not but I don’t know.
Joe Perry, why would you ask such a question? First, answer for yourself what is a scam. Look in a dictionary if you are not sure. Scam is all about money. If you do not give money to someone, you cannot be scammed. If you are going to send money to someone you met online, you will be scammed. As simple as that. And no, there is no place where scam artists are obliged to register before they can start scamming people. They just do it without registering their intention anywhere. Your neighbour can scam you out of money –… Read more »
Some girls from Russia looks like prefer the personal contact over online. I mean good company face to face but online communication is rare from their side (when they are at home, and we can`t meet). Does it mean something, or just personal preference?
“advanced software translators, which now can translate as you speak”
Well I prefer when we have common tongue (secondary language English for both), but:
Could you recommend some of this kind of software, which is request no internet connection and run on pc (laptop)?