As a woman who is frequently complimented as beautiful and a dating coach to females and males seeking a long-term mate, I can say that there is no single quality that makes a man attractive. (Although it’s easy to make yourself more attractive to women — read on for tips.)
What are the qualities that make a man attractive to women?
Some guys seem to believe “confidence” to be the Holy Grail of male attractiveness, but it’s certainly not.
Sure, if you are walking up to women and asking them out, after a while you: (1) learn to do it better; (2) become skilled at choosing women who may be receptive to your offer; (3) try to look better in order to avoid rejection, etc.
In other words, doing something results in natural improvement of your technique — and therefore results.
Does your ability to walk up to a woman make you a more attractive man? I highly doubt it.
In fact, many women would be totally turned off by a suave guy trying to ask them out. Beautiful women had encountered a high number of players and they have an unconscious player-radar. In fact, the most attractive quality to a beautiful woman may be your shyness or slight embarrassment when unswerving an inconvenient question honestly, even awkwardness in courtship. Too smooth an approach is associated with a definite “red flag” and the instant feeling of mistrust—which is good news for the majority of genuine guys who don’t approach unknown females on a regular basis.
So, what makes a man attractive?
- Physical looks are the main factor in women’s attraction. If she is repulsed physically, that’s the dead end. Unkempt, messy appearance and lots of excess weight will sure to turn off any girl. Improving your looks is the easiest and fastest way to becoming more attractive to ladies. All you need to do is to go to a good department store and ask a male shop assistant to help you choose a “capsule wardrobe” (things that go together in various combinations). Then book a good hairdresser at a fashionable salon and allow him to choose a style that flatters you. Third, book laser teeth whitening. It will be an instant transformation worth of depicting in a TV show! And it’s achievable within a week, with ladies giving you up to 400% more attention and positive responses leading to second and third date than pre-makeover.
- If you believe yourself to be shy, start dating online. Get good photos done by a professional photographer who helps clients get pictures specifically for dating sites. You will be astounded at the difference you get when contacting ladies, once your photos are well done. It is also a very easy way of making yourself instantly more attractive in women’s eyes.
- Authenticity. Being exactly the person you say you are and behaving honestly in every aspect, including dating, is extremely attractive.
- Going for what you want. Purposeful advancement towards achieving your goals is the ultimate turn-on. In fact, women often tell me that the two most important factors for them in a long-term mate are resilience and reliability.
Good luck!
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One of Elena’s best advice articles. I don’t usually comment on her advice since I often have minor disagreements and I don’t really like to argue with a professional, but in this case I think she’s 100% correct. 1: exercise, lose weight, and get in better shape. Besides the woman’s point of view, whenever you get in better shape, you feel more confident in at least one way. You may still have a shy personality, which is not necessarily a bad thing, but at least you won’t be as self-conscious about your appearance. And it’s healthy, also. 2: haircut, clothes… Read more »
Great advise, short, sweet, to the point and thank God, it starts with looks.
A strong torso means you walk in a solid relaxed kinda way, doors open easily, you get out of your car with style, lifting things up…and her…are easy. Yoga is what gave me the core strength without the bulk.
Girls look at your shoes and judge you by them.
Eat healthy without all the gimmicks, Take a carefully thought out vitamin and mineral supplement regimen.
In Eastern Europe people don’t always say goodbye. They say…
Good Luck!
It may be cruel a little bit, but appearance plays a HUGE role for women! I totally agree with the first point. If man is in a great physical shape, it means that he works out a lot, he is disciplined and has a strong power of will. All in all, it means that he is determined with his aims and knows how to reach them. What can be more attractive than that?
I agree with statements absolutely. Every man should be confident in his attractive and not afraid go on risk if necesseary. Also this is a cool idea to start dating online because it is a great way for seeking a girl or woman of dream. But should choose the best photo is really.
I don’t think that appearance plays the dramatic role. I can tell that man’s personality is much more important for me. If I’m enchanted by his intellect, mindset, behaviour I may look away from some aspects of appearance that I don’t like. But of course that shouldn’t be too much. If he never takes shower and smells bad, neglects his body, doesn’t change the clothes for days I will probably still be interested in talking to him (distantly:D) but will not want to kiss him or else.
As for me, a good remark is to whiten the teeth! Subconsciously, every women wants to see a handsome man close by. Not every man realizes what actions to take to attract women and just do nothing thinking they should not. And I would add one more thing – a good sense of humor is a key to long lasting and strong relationship.
There are hundreds of male’s qualities that may draw attention of female. Some women dream of a creative, a Jack of all trades and flexible man. But I think it’s a kind of a fairy tale. I’ve never met such character traits in one person at the same time.
I consider the main quality in a man is reliability. You can trust such person and be confident in the future.