Feeling intimidated about the upcoming holiday of Love and Romance? No need to be. Follow these simple tips and in just 3 weeks you will have a beautiful woman to celebrate Valentine’s Day with. 14 February is just a few weeks away, so let’s start making it happen today!

1. Don’t be intimidated by the upcoming Valentine’s Day

A lot of men feel like Valentine’s Day is a “Lose—Lose” proposition. Expectations for romance are stratospheric and men are not comfortable with their ability to deliver.

International dating has plenty of advantages for men in this regard.

• Single women at this time start to reflect strongly on relationships and are more open to responding to you.
• With all the online marketing and propaganda of romance and relationships, urges are now on steroids.

It’s the perfect time to start making contacts with women online. Send contact requests, mails, EOI’s, and start talking. Now it’s the highly motivated time to make online dating work for you!

However, you have little chance if you are not prepared to make contact and do not have a value for money membership (see p.5 below).

2. Update your profile to make it appear “NEW”

Update all of photos in your profile. Put some effort and get at least some professional or semi-professional photographs done. (If you seriously want a wife, get professional photos. It’s totally worth it!)

Ensure you have at least 5 great NEW photos. It’s time to start impressing with the updated version 2.0 of you in the profile. Women will react to this.

• On Elena’s Models website women can “Like” your photos.
• When this occurs, you receive an email with data of girls who liked your photo, so you know that they are interested.

This tip for Valentine’s dating online is our top “Cheat Sheet” trick just 25 days out from the most romantic holiday of the year. Use this time to create your ultimate opportunity to meet beautiful women online by simply updating all your profile photos. Here is an example of the best photo for your personal ad on EM.

3. Start posting more on your Personal Blog

Women are extremely curious and easily impressed by a man who appears to have an exciting life. Don’t think your life is mundane: Anything is of interest to your new online pen pals.

• You can post photos with short messages, which are instantly (without moderation) accessible to all your Contacts.
• This means, all women you ever have been talking to or exchanged EOI’s with will see these posts and pictures.
• Get a smiling photo in a local cafe when going for lunch, in a beautiful park, or when making a dinner.
• Women cannot help but read men’s personal blogs.
• The more often you post something positive and upbeat, the stronger impression you will make on the ladies who don’t have a stable partner but really would like to find one right now.
• Elena’s Models personal blog works similar to Facebook status updates but it’s only accessible to women in your Contacts.

Start posting on your personal blog daily about things you do. Girls are very curious about your life but they will probably never ask you questions to avoid looking “immodest”.

4. Update your message and profile texts

Not only photos but texts as well make a huge difference to how your persona appeals to ladies. If you didn’t put much effort initially or couldn’t achieve the results you wanted, give it an overhaul! It is as simple as 1-2-3.

1. Read 50-100 profiles of women whom you find attractive.
2. Write down what they want to find in the man of their dreams.
3. If you can offer these things to ladies (at least some of these things!), include them in your profile!

How simple is that? It will only take you a couple of hours but the results may amaze you!

5. Get a value for money membership deal

The option that our members seem to particularly enjoy is Platinum membership, which allows you to contact any woman on the site without limitations: 10, 20, or 100.

If one girl doesn’t answer, it won’t bother you, because every day 20+ new women join and you are able to send a note to any of them.

Give it all you can and the results could be astounding.

What would finding Your Dream Girl mean to your life? If you are really serious, upgrade to Ultimate—and every woman on EM will notice your profile!

Men’s profiles in search results are by default sorted by your membership level. 1—Ultimate members; 2—Platinum members; 3—Gold members; 4—Free members. If you want your profile to show on TOP of search results, upgrade to Ultimate! The next best option is Platinum membership ($259 for 3 months). This will save you time and money, as you need less efforts to attract girls. They do pay attention to everything in your profile!

6. Check list: Are you ready to finally find Love?

Check if you have completed the following tasks:

• Value membership to be able to contact any woman on the site instantly.
• Updated photos to professional or semi-professional.
• Edited your message and profile texts to match what women you like seek in the man to fall in love with.
• Started posting positive and upbeat photos and messages on your Personal Blog.

If you have completed the profile overhaul, time to start moving forward.

Are you ready to find love? Give yourself the best chance!

7. Acquire as many contacts as you can

Now start making as many contacts as you can (only with those women you feel really attracted to, who meet your criteria). Strive to accumulate at least 40 confirmed contacts, where ladies accepted your EOI’s. Now it’s time to really show you, your personality and what a great life she will have with you!

Start posting quick details of your exciting daily activities, views and thoughts for Valentine’s day. Most importantly, add photos of you and your life in action through your personal blog on Elena’s Models website. Remember, only the ladies in your Contacts get these updates. You only need to post 1 photo to impact all 40+ of your contacts.

Every time you post a quick blog and/or photo, all 40 women will get an alert and read what’s happening with you.

Ladies are curious creatures: They are unable to resist picking at someone’s life… Especially if it’s about the lifestyle of a potential partner!

Get them interested, excited about you and your life. It’s not hard! Their existence is very different, so anything you do is rather amusing.

Remember, this is your “public” blog visible to all women at once. If you want to get one-on-one and share something personal, send a mail directly to the lucky lady.

You’ve got now about 10 days before you can have that special 1-on-1 Valentine’s Day. Keep posting blogs daily until 3 days out from the big day February 14. You want to ensure all those gorgeous women—who are now in your contacts—stay interested.

You can meet pretty women of any age on Elenasmodels.com. If you have Ultimate or Platinum membership, it includes UNLIMITED contacts, which means, you are able to instantly email any lady on the site at no charge. Share you direct email, mobile number and social network pages—it’s allowed and encouraged!

8. Select ladies to move forward with quickly

Narrow down the list of ladies: Select women you like the most and would want to potentially have a 1-on-1 dinner with, and hopefully fall in love and establish a great relationship.

Hopefully, you can manage to put 2-3 ladies on this list. Having more women to charm might be too much of a challenge and it’s easy to get mixed up. You don’t want to end up with an egg on your face when you sent Olga congratulations with getting a promotion, when in fact you sent that message to Sveta who just lost her job.

Keep sending emails and chats but now it is more important to promptly move to Skype or other video messaging system.

Use Elena’s Models chat app which is accessible 24/7 for mobile chat and video. (There is no separate payment for each chat, conversation or video date—you only need to be a paying member. It’s all included as part of the package!)

9. Use video chatting to make it real

Move forward quickly with Skype and video chatting and make it real.

Why wait if you really like these ladies?

You’re here to date internationally—don’t make it more difficult than it needs to be. Just get on with it.

Finding a partner for a great relationship is about the effort. So, man up and put in some good effort: It’s Valentine’s Day in less than 10 sleeps, and you can’t get a better time to start a romance.

10. Start planning your budget

Yes, guys: It’s time to get real.

If you don’t get what Valentine’s Day is about for women, then get off dating sites!

It’s about Romance. With the capital “R”.

Let’s get serious.

• You are down to 2-3 women.
• It’s likely to drop to 2 or even possibly one within a few more days.
• So, remember, she is in another country and you need to very quickly use your management and entrepreneurial skills to send a gift—NOW!

But whom do you send a gift to?

• If you still have 2-3 favourites, then you can ask her if it would be okay to send her a small gift in appreciation of the time and fondness you have for her.
• Don’t be afraid she may think you are a stalker. She won’t! Simply ask her where you can send a small Valentine’s present for her (to be delivered by a courier).
• Once you get an address for a delivery, you can now arrange some charming flowers to be couriered. Add some sweet thoughts and reflections about her so far to be included in a card.

Use flower and gift courier services such as Interflora, Roses.ru or other legitimate delivery sites. (Not pay-per-letter sites; your gifts are pointless there; here is why.)

The time to book you gift delivery is NOW!

Beautiful flowers and a card with warm words will be a great present for your sweetheart on Valentine’s Day. Use legitimate gift delivery websites like Interflora or Roses.ru to book your gift delivery.

11. Let’s get personal

Guys, this does NOT mean sending topless photos of yourselves or any other types of innuendoes (including pictures of private body parts),—which you should avoid like a plague, if you want this relationship to go anywhere serious.

What it means, now it’s time for you to get her mobile number and start sending sweet text messages (once or twice a day) letting her know that you are thinking of her and making sure she starts the day happy and ends the day even happier with some engaging and short caring messages.

This does not replace mails and video calls, but you are using the texts as a way of flirting and caring. The small texts are a way to energise your international communication.

12. Time to hide your profile

You are now getting more serious with one or 2 ladies. Time to “Hide” your profile online and let them know.

Go to Settings and choose the option “Hide my profile”. But remember, they can see if you are online or not, so juggling a few contacts at this stage might send you from 2 pretty women to a big fat “0” contacts very quickly if they feel you are still hunting for more love.

Now you have the opportunity by making the first move on commitment—yes, that’s right, hiding your profile is “commitment” in the online dating world.

Tell your special ladies (or lady) why you are doing it and express your feelings about how you see the short and long term future of this relationship.

Guys, get it right in your head. Women from Ukraine or Russia, as a general rule, are here to seriously get involved in a relationship that would hopefully lead to a marriage.

So, don’t be unclear to her about your intentions.

That does not mean you are getting married: It just means, “don’t be shy to sound serious.”

Don’t beat around the bush, as you found necessary in relationships with western women, where you are too afraid to appear interested.

Russian and Ukrainian women are not into the “hookup culture”, they genuinely want something serious. This is why they are here. The more serious you sound, the more interested they are in you, and not another guy.

It’s easy to find love with Slavic girls on Elenasmodels.com—they are here to find something serious that can last a lifetime!

13. Time to make it ONE

It’s been fun starting with 40 women admiring you, your life, your blog, and your photos. But now you should be pushing forward with that one special lady you want to make Valentine’s Day matter for.

Yes, you now have about 5 days left, so make those 5 days count. This is it, your building up to the point where you have your love by your side (at least online) has created an environment full of opportunity. And it all was made possible because of a seemingly “commercial propaganda”, as some men see it. But you can apparently use these things to your advantage!

Women, including Russian and Ukrainian ladies, value the notion of romance and what Valentine’s Day can be for them—if only a nice man would step forward and make it happen!

So, don’t blow it now: Step up and start romancing that woman now.

Time to quickly review the budget, look at good online gift sites, and prepare your special gift to be delivered. Try chocolates and flowers, or even a nice perfume. Deliveries are 3-4 days within those countries, so now is the time.

These tips initially appeared on Elena’s Models Facebook page.

Read also:

• Send a beautiful Valentine’s Day greeting to your girl
• How to make a Russian or Ukrainian woman feel like you are her Destiny
• Valentine’s gift ideas for women from Russia and Ukraine
• 13 gifts to avoid for Valentine’s Day