Hot Russian girls know that they are attractive and desirable. If you wish to date women who are above average in looks, you need to be equipped to do that.
What Hot Russian Girls Want In Relationships
When pretty Russian girls join international dating sites, their goal is to find the right man and settle down.
The majority of young women want to have kids and a family. There are also some beautiful girls who do not wish to have kids and they really struggle to find a match.
In Russia women who do not wish to have kids in a marriage are looked down upon, because it’s universally accepted that all women should dream about becoming a mother and a wife. It’s ingrained in values of Eastern European women. If a woman doesn’t want kids in a marriage, this will be hard for her to find a partner in Russia.
However, the great majority of hot women from Russia join international dating sites wanting a marriage with kids. They feel that their biological clocks are ticking but they still couldn’t find the right guy to settle down (because women outnumber men in Russia). This is why they join sites offering contacts with western men.
The majority of young Russian women want to have kids and a family.
The Easy Way of Dating Pretty Russian Girls
When you are dating women who know very well that they are beautiful, don’t expect them courting you or even going halves. They are single because they have been taught to sit pretty and wait for men to win their hearts.
In Russia, they call it “hunter-prey” dating model. It’s similar to what the western idea of “playing hard to get” includes.
The girls are taught that they should not be making any moves or even as much as show interest in a man. (I know it’s silly, but so far my efforts to explain it to the girls keep failing.) In other words, a girl can purposefully don’t answer your messages for several days just so she doesn’t appear “easy”.
Once you understand that, it makes life so much easier.
- If she didn’t answer your first message, send another one.
- If she said “No” to your EOI but you really like her, write a good letter and send to her, saying “I know you refused my EOI, but because I really like you I decided to write, hoping maybe you’d change your mind”. In the western view it would be stalking, in the view of Russian girls it means persistence and it signifies you really like her. She will be happy to hear that someone is really attracted to her.
- Keep making compliments to her (not only about her looks but preferably about her personality, principles, values).
- Include small signs of affection (send electronic cards, poems, cute pictures).
- Paint emotional pictures of how great your life together will be, how many things you want to show her, all the great stuff.
Don’t:
- Don’t ever show any sign of insecurity about the future of your relationship.
- Don’t ask if she thinks your age difference is OK, whether she will be able to get used to living in a hot/cold climate etc. If she didn’t like certain things, she wouldn’t be talking to you. Don’t put doubts in her mind.
- Don’t be rude or insensitive. If she appears to be upset, apologize profusely for anything you might have done wrong unknowingly and tell her you like her and she is the best girl in the whole Universe. It doesn’t matter that you are right and she is wrong. Do you want to be with her or do you want to be right? Choose now.
Russian Girls Are Highly Emotional
Women from Russia are more emotional than western girls. If you think back how women were supposed to behave in 1980s, this is how Russian girls behave now. They are in that era where women were thought to be fragile creatures incapable of killing a spider.
Watch movies from that period and see how women behave. The similarity with how girls from Russian act today is uncanny. That’s the other side of women insisting that they are different from men, which is what happens in Russia today. They want to be different, they want to be treated differently.
For some men it’s a breath of fresh air when women don’t desire to compete with men. For others it’s rather annoying when girls behave like they are incapable of changing a tire or opening a bottle of champagne. In any way, that’s the reality of dating hot Russian girls in 2016. They want to be admired for their femininity.
Pretty girls from Russia and Ukraine want to be admired for their beauty and femininity.
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In my opinion, there are a lot of different ways to achieve the heart of beloved, and it absolutely doesn’t matter where she was born. Of course, the culture of your country affects you, but not so much. Every person is special and individual. But maybe it’s only my opinion.
Certainly, there are general rules of dating, but there are also national peculiarities that can impede your relationship, if you are not aware of certain things. For example, giving an even number of flowers to a Russian girl or giving her yellow flowers… western guys don’t even know why it’s such a taboo. 🙂 And Russian girls are quite superstitious, an error like this could cost you her trust in your common future together, she would see it as a “bad omen” for a relationship. This is why it’s a good idea to just learn about such peculiarities (there are… Read more »
I agree completely with you Elena. I was previously married to a Russian woman and have a lot of Russian and Ukrainian friends here in the San Francisco area. There are few peculiarities I think western men…especially Americans should keep in mind that I would consider new to them. But just remembering basic courtesies and manners is half of it. It is ashamed that so many western men have forgotten the basic concepts of chivalry and respect. I have traveled throughout Russia and am very familiar. I would say the newer generations there (post perestroika raised) are certainly less strict… Read more »
Yes, all this plus about 100 more things 🙂
But if she was Ukrainian yellow and blue flowers would be patriotic!
Stephen, I am sure your Ukrainian girlfriend would appreciate the insight 😉
Elena, This is certainly an eye-opening article for me. I never considered doing anything but writing off as “unavailable” any woman who rejected or ignored my first effort at communication. I did not consider this “hard to get” or “better to not show interest in a man” attitude or cultural characteristic of the ladies on here. That’s very interesting and thought provoking. Another thing about these ladies that I am not used to and unsure how to handle is that I get the feeling that there is some kind of socially conservative attitude prevalent, that limits how a man should… Read more »
“hey let’s chat” = a guy who wants to be entertained for free (while on a PPL site guys pay money for that). Girls say they simply delete such “hey” messages. “What do I answer? Hey? It sounds stupid. I am here to create a family, not to chat.”
Maybe you can find a girl who will be OK with “the bikie look”, but only if she herself is tattooed with lots of body piercing… there are not many girls like this on Elenasmodels.com.
Elena, that is good information. I never considered this “guy who wants free entertainment” angle, I was thinking more that it’s just like walking up and introducing myself to a woman I find attractive, and striking up a conversation with her. I’ve never had a problem doing that in real life. Real time conversation seems an easier way to get to know someone, and a faster way to find out if you are compatible, that’s all I was thinking. Letters seem colder, less personal, asynchronous and stilted, unlike real time chat. But OK! Now I know I was thinking incorrectly… Read more »
Yes, and by no means buy the VIP Coaching package I crafted specifically for men dating Russian and Ukrainian women 🙂 keep making your own mistakes and learn from them, it’s more fun 🙂 🙂
Elena, a sarcastic attack on a prospect’s lack of wisdom and high error rate, saying if only I was smart enough to buy your training it could fix me…. well thats unique salesmanship, for sure! But I take it with humor. Not the first time someone told me Im.stupid hahahH 🙂 And you’re no doubt right, I could learn a lot from your training, Im sure. I’m just not totally sure I want to, yet. A lot of the things you say about Russian and Ukrainian women frankly make them sound less attractive, at least to me. I abhor superstition,… Read more »
Chris, when I say it’s more fun making your own mistakes, I am not being sarcastic. Do you prefer to know the game score or watch it not knowing? Of course, it’s more fun not knowing. Same here. If you use my tips, you just KNOW it’s going to work, that’s the easy way of dating hot Russian girls. Like waving a magic wand: 🙂 But as you say, you are not even sure you want it to work. In other words, you are not sure you want a partner again, want love, intimacy, and connection. Fair enough. I know… Read more »
>>That, plus the last two years of searching for romance and a woman partner have been, in the end, a total waste of vast amounts of time, money, and emotional energy There’s the real problem. I don’t believe in the Hunter-Prey model as Elena describes it. I prefer to be bluntly transactional. That works with some hot women. Then if youre good in bed and continue doling out money, you can get them to forgive anything, including not buying flowers at all. But hunting in the sense of an activity to be enjoyed for its own sake is a good… Read more »
Frank, I am not even going to argue. You guys think I am against of what you are doing? I don’t mind either way! 🙂 Of course it’s easier to buy a girl with gifts – “transactional”, as you call it. Sex will follow, and if you are any good in bed – not hard whatsoever, Russian and Ukrainian guys are like 30 years behind the times – so, if you are good in bed, what a nice surprise for a girl. Getting a Russian girl to think you are amazing is not hard. Dating hot Russian (Ukrainian) girls is… Read more »
A nota bene real quick about a sentence in the article. ” In the western view it would be stalking ” In the USA it would be considering stalking, but, not in the western culture of West of Europe. There is a huge mentality difference between USA and West Europe.