If you wonder how many women in Russia and Ukraine want to marry foreigners, you may be surprised. Contrary to the popular belief, the absolute majority of women will never consider dating a foreigner.
Do Russian women like foreign men?
There had been a lot of conversations in western media about Russian women dating foreigners during 2018 Soccer World Cup. Truth is, there was no more interest from the local girls to foreign guys visiting the country during the Cup than normally in any destination where such an event takes place.
It is a certain type of girls that like to hang out with visiting tourists during events, this is what was happening in Russia during the World Cup.
The media made it look as if there were large numbers of females wanting to date foreign guys. It’s far from the truth.
The whole “dating a foreigner during the World Cup” story started with words of an old lady, a member of the federal parliament, who said it wouldn’t be advisable for local females to hook up with visiting tourists, because they would have to bring up babies alone. Such a view is so hilarious and obsolete, the media picked it up first locally and then internationally. It was because the advice was bizarre, but things turned differently at the end.
Controversy
Because of discussions in the media, girls went vocal with their view that they are going to date whomever they want. The topic became controversial and bloggers jumped on to ride the popularity wave.
Some guys started organizing online groups to name and shame girls seen with foreigners. One writer, formerly unknown, became the household name because he labelled all women dating foreigners as “whores” and a large tabloid published his article.
This definitely turned many females off the idea to date a visiting foreigner during the World Cup. Girls were simply scared to be seen nearby for the fear of being caught on camera and chastised online.
But some guys picked up the news about Russian women wanting to date foreigners and decided all girls were up to that. Not at all!
But yes, the idea of dating a foreigner got some PR, although it was what they call ‘black PR’. But it did give some promotion to the idea of dating foreign guys.
It was mostly curiosity from Russian girls, rather than the desire to ‘create a family’ typical for ladies who join international dating sites.
What percentage of Russian women would consider marrying a foreigner?
If you ran into a Russian woman who agreed to date you somewhere in Russia, and then you managed to start a relationship and it got serious, then you probably have about 50% chance that she would agree to marry you and move out of the country.
There are a lot of ‘ifs’ in that scenario, of course:
- If you manage to set up a date with a Russian girl (you can do it via Tinder when you are in Russia, so it’s not such a big deal).
- If you manage to follow the correct courting process, so that she doesn’t reject you because you don’t show yourself as a man in love. (Read the VIP Coaching manual to find out all the required steps and rituals.) Many girls reject suitors, for example, because they didn’t bring flowers to the first date, and the women decided he isn’t really interested and just after one thing.
- If you manage to turn the date into a relationship (not as easy as you may think).
- If you last long enough in the relationship to feel that it may be something you want to make long-lasting.
- Then, after you propose, you have about 50/50 chance of her willing to move to another country with you.
You may think all Russian women want to immigrate, this is why they want to date foreigners, no, that’s actually not true. The majority of young girls are very patriotic and think that Russia is the best country in the world for them to live. Not kidding. Absolutely seriously!
Marriages with foreigners
Ask a Russian girl about marriages to foreigners (the one who is not on an international dating site like Elenasmodels.com), and her response will be this:
“It’s a bad idea because we have different mentalities with foreigners.”
Guarantee you! The propaganda machine works well in Russia and this is the official point of view embedded in females.
Russian people are also absolutely convinced that anyone who left Russia misses the native country terribly.
From this point of view, which is strongly embedded, marriages with foreigners are deemed to fail.
Horror stories with Russian brides are widely promoted on TV and in media, purposefully scaring women off the idea to find marital bliss with a guy who is not her compatriot.
Is it easier to meet a woman to marry by going to Russia?
While a lady may be curious to date you when she meets you in an informal setting when you are visiting Russia, and she may be even flattered by your interest (foreigners, especially from the first world countries, are still looked at as if they were something special), she still has these unspoken beliefs in her mind and they hold tremendous power over her.
The ladies who listed their profiles on international dating sites already are free from such beliefs! This is why they are here.
So, you can, of course, go to Russia and attempt to pick up and date girls there, but if you are thinking about a long-term relationship and marriage, not just a short hook-up, then consider all of the above.
It could give you tremendous value to first chat to Russian women seeking foreign husbands online, learn their views and attitudes, this is much easier to do when you are separated by thousands of miles, as opposed to face-to-face.
When dating online, you are able to talk for hours discussing all these things. When you are dating in real life, it’s all getting very hot very quickly. You may get hooked up with a completely wrong person, hormones talk louder than the logic.
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