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Some guys go to forums and try to get answers from people who have extremely limited knowledge of our system and how it works.
For instance, I keep encountering both from women and men suspicions that there are some profiles set by the site in order to “lure” people in. Guys also feel that they may be getting EOI’s not from women but generated by the site.
Guys, if we wanted to switch to PPL and follow their suit of fake communication, we would do it properly and long time ago. It requires just some computer reprogramming and these systems bring enormous profits.
- StatisticsBrain evaluates dating market as billing around 1.935 billion dollars a year. PPL sites bill over 200 million dollars a year, which means it’s over 10% of the global online dating market. (Including legitimate dating sites like Match.com that have 24 million users, eHarmony with 17 million users.) PPL’s earnings per user are way higher than average across the industry.
A reporter asked me some time ago why Elena’s Models didn’t switch to PPL (pay per letter). I answered, “Because it doesn’t work”. He asked again and I only could answer the same thing. Paid communication via proxy doesn’t work if the purpose is building a genuine relationship.
So, if we wanted to cheat our users or extract money in unscrupulous ways, there is no need to invent any minor scams. PPL is the ultimate answer, and it works perfectly, as you know.
But we are dedicated to integrity. We believe, maybe somewhat idealistically, there is value in integrity and being true to ethics.
No fake profiles or fake messages—No need to ask about it
So, no, we do not set fake profiles to lure clients in and we also don’t send any fake system-generated messages or EOI’s.
That’s a guarantee, which is included in our Terms of Use. So, it’s not just words but an official part of the service you get from Elenasmodels.com.
Integrity disclosure is part of ElenasModels.com Terms of Use.
Do you have any problems or complaints about your relationships with women on Elena’s Models?
I will be happy to answer. If you are an active member of Elenasmodels.com and have a valid membership (Gold, Platinum, or Ultimate), ask your question here. It will be definitely more effective than asking for dating advice at forums.
- This is a limited time offer.
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If I spend a contact point sending a letter, and the girl never reads it or responds, I wish I could cancel and get the contact point/credit back. I could also use advice on getting past small talk. I can’t seem to get past small talk, so it just gets boring and one of us loses interest
Aaron, You will get a contact back if you sent an EOI first and the girl responded positively, but never answered your mail (after 30 days). So, either upgrade to Platinum and stop worrying about contacts, or send an EOI first. About getting past “small talk”, here are some tips how to engage women. In short, drop any small talk completely. You need to tell her: – You are here to find a WIFE. – You are ready to organize a personal meeting (travel to meet her or organize a meeting somewhere like Thailand). If you do not want to… Read more »
Hi Elena, How are you?
I’m having trouble searching
profile of users of your page.
I do not know if they are real users of your page.
benjamin,
Are you a paying member?
About three months ago, I purchased and read Elena’s VIP Coaching program. I have found this program to be a high-value product, well worth the $299. As I have learned things, I have implemented the tips. Not only are the tips effective, but simply knowing what to do has increased my confidence. And the women have responded well 🙂 Большое спасибо!
Hi Rex,
Thanks for the feedback. I am glad to hear it worked well for you!
I have a Russian woman who I have been talking to everyday, for about 2 months. She has never asked for money. She is dead set on coming to see me here in the US. We have not met.. I have told her repeatedly we have to meet at a neutral site or I come to her first., or she will not be able to get into the US. I have told her she may ruin her chances of coming back on a Fiance Visa. Kill her chances of gaining citizenship on down the road. Then she would not be… Read more »
Kevin,
You obviously didn’t meet this woman on elenasmodels.com. Where did she contact you? A local dating site? It’s an old scam.
Read more about it here: visa and tickets scam.
If you were not asked to wire money yet, you will be soon. Report the scam profile to the dating site where you met her and to your local police as an Internet fraud.
Hi Elena…maybe you can explain why it is so difficult to meet Russian women living in Russia….especially Moscow women….and why it is easier to meet Ukrainian women. I travel to Voronezh frequently as I have a son there….so I always pass through Moscow….I tried many times since August 2015 when I joined this site to meet a woman at a Moscow airport….every time I pass through a Moscow airport, I contact Moscow women before I arrive…and no Moscow woman registered on Elena’s Models has come to meet me at a Moscow airport. Besides the rejections, I have gotten a lot… Read more »
Edward, You sound like a seasoned “dater” and I guess you should go back to basics. Did you get the VIP Coaching Program? If not, get it now and forget all that you think you “know” but simply follow the steps. About meeting at the airport, I would never go to an airport to meet a man. You either come and visit me property, and visit only me, or you can keep “speed dating” and interviewing dozens of candidates (this is way better to do on Skype, by the way 🙂 ), and I will be waiting for the man… Read more »
Actually, I’m meeting a lady I met here for the first time in person in a few days. Wish me luck.
Incidentally, if I hadn’t read at least one success story and one article saying it’s definitely worth sending a two-week follow-up to someone you’re really interested in if she doesn’t get back to you (she’d replied to my first email, then wasn’t on the site for a while), then we never would have gotten going. So thanks.
David,
Great to hear that! Good luck.
Hello Elena, I hope this finds you and the EM team well. I must admit that I’ve had mixed success on your website. Mostly it’s been a positive experience and I think the vast majority of women on the website are legitimate and genuinely seeking lasting love – as am I. I’m in communication now with a nice lady from Kiev but I get the impression she’s deliberately trying to keep her options open. We had been speaking about me travelling from Sydney to Kiev to meet in Dec/Jan. I had hoped to spend as much time as possible with… Read more »
Mick,
It’s hard to give advice on personal relationships, but you always have a gut feel what is the right thing to do. In the majority of cases, our members who were successful went to meet only one woman and they were spending many hours daily talking to each other, before they met and fell in love. (See Success stories on our site.)
Hi Elena Than you for your reply. I agree, in my experience the best relationships have been those where we talk often. I will continue my search in the hope I will meet the one where we develop an irresistible chemistry. What I may do is upgrade my subscription to platinum just prior to going to Europe so if I get stuck in Ukraine or Russia without a date I can contact a local lady. Thank you for your reply and for the great website. Kind regards, Mick P. S. I have read most of the success stories and I… Read more »
I’m considering searching for a wife here, and I’d appreciate some advice. My first criteria for a wife is simple. She must be anti-feminist. However, there is a difference between anti-feminist and traditionalist. They are not the same. Honestly, “traditional” doesn’t precisely work for me. I’m completely committed to the idea of life-long marriage and family. But, frankly, I don’t want a “housewife” as part of that. I’d rather have a dynamic and exciting life with my lady. My relationship philosophy is certainly much closer to “traditional” than the typical “modern” view of a usual westerner. But I’d like my… Read more »
Wes,
When you register, you can search the database and view women’s profiles. Then you can read in more detail and see if there are women whose thinking you like. You also get 20 free EOIs (expressions of interest) to send to women, once your profile is approved. The ladies will answer “Yes” or “No”. Then you can take it from there, whether there is someone you feel excited about.
About feminism, read this article: How feminism is viewed in Russia.
Hi Elena, Thanks for making this site the real thing. I know from experience the way the PPL sites work…they are quite effective at providing what I would call instant gratification. But I think it’s virtually impossible to find a real relationship on a PPL site. Here on this site it takes a bit more time and effort (and isn’t that the case in the real world?), but the women are real and sincere, and the chances for honest love and a lasting relationship are much greater. I also believe your blogs are very informative…I have learned some valuable lessons… Read more »
Hi Will, thank you for the kind words. I am glad it helps.
About PPL sites horror stories, the best places to share them are: (1) government consumer affairs departments [it’s their job to protect consumers from deceptive commercial practices]; (2) current affairs programs and talk shows (like Dr. Phil); (3) investigative reporters from media who write about scams and fraud.
I understand that men who were scammed by PPL sites are angry and upset, but you need to direct your feedback to appropriate channels and not just complain to each other on forums.
A Russian lady keeps sending me this number? Is it a telephone number? VIBER 7 XXXXXXXXXX What is the best way to call from the US to Russia?
Hi Kevin,
Viber is an app (mobile application), similar to Skype but for your phone. You install the app into your phone and then you can call and send messages to any other user, share photos etc. Do you use apps?
Not really, but I am learning. Any tips on getting this app? Is it used by Russian women?
Kevin,
Young women use mobile phones for everything! 🙂 They surf internet on the phone and use apps such as Skype, Viber, WhatsApp, SnapChat for communication. That’s how people today talk to family, friends, children, grandchildren, and even do job interviews. And of course when dating internationally! 🙂
Usually a woman has one preferred app she regularly uses. But they all work in similar ways.
I have now signed up on Viber. How do I call or text. Do I use the 7 she listed? I see you blocked out her #. There are spaces between some of the numbers. Do I include those spaces in the number or do I put in the numbers with no spaces? Thank you for being so patient with me.
Kevin,
I am not a tech support for Viber 🙂
And I don’t use it myself.
Try to Google it?
Dear Elena, Congratulations for your succesfull site. Actuallyy, i know in person colleagues who succeded in finding a lifetime partner through this site and they now have a happy family. I would like your advise on how to promote myself without at the same time being too much ‘self-praised’. For example, although wealth is not everything in a succesful relation, i would like to tell to my future woman that i am in a good financial position, with a house, without loans and with a stable fulfilling job that offers me a regular high income. I know all these matter… Read more »
Costas,
You can say, “I can provide for a family; I own my home and have a good job.”
See also: Profile secrets revealed: 20 things that women really want to know about you.
Thanks a lot Elena. Very helpful link!
Costas, there is a lot information on this blog. Still, it’s easier, if you are serious, to download the complete VIP Coaching Program for men dating Russian, Ukrainian women; it covers all the issues you need to know.
I am new to this kind of dating service. How does it work? Does one have to meet a woman in her country, or can she come here? And when one finds “the one” how does it work to get her here?
Dennis,
There is a lot of information on this blog; just do a search (top right corner).
You can meet anywhere; there are just issues of visas. Depending on where you live, you choose the easiest option for both of you.
Hi Elena, I hope you’re having a great day! I have a question. Let me begin by saying I am looking for a Russian woman. Good looking, experienced, able to hold a conversation and her own in a conflict.
My question is about a woman I’ve seen on-line. She’s drop dead gorgeous, has a mouth watering figure, lovely blonde hair, smart, cool, together and everything a guy could ask for. Her name is Elena from New York City.
What do you suggest I say to get her to go out with me Elena?
Paul Rose,
You’ll figure it out, I am sure 🙂
I am only answering here questions of current paying clients of Elena’s Models regarding their experience on the site, complaints, issues, etc.
If you’d like to learn how to court Russian women, download my VIP dating coaching manual.
If you don’t wish to pay, search the blog (the search box is in the top right corner).
Good luck! 😉
Hi, I have only just joined the site recently, it was great at the beginning as a got a few requests and chatted for a bit with one lady in Russian, but after 1 or 2 email exchanges all the communication just stops. The first contact explained here reasons which was fair but the others without any explanation just do not give any reason and just stop all together. I have had the same with 4 different contacts and don’t understand why. I am extremely polite with my emails and very open about wanting a serious relationship, I am very… Read more »
Gaz, It’s hard to pinpoint why exactly it’s happening, but it sounds like you are saying something that puts women off. Also, do not confuse phrases, “I want a serious relationship,” and “I want to get married and have kids”. A “serious relationship” probably means “marriage and family” for you, but for women it means something entirely different. For women it means you want to hang out together for a long time, but you do not plan to get married to her. In other words, it means you are going to waste her time. I get complaints from women all… Read more »
Hi Elena, Thank you so much for taking time to provide such a comprehensive answer, you are right that the cultural differences and how we communicate in UK and Russian / Ukraine could mean totally different things. I will update my profile and also adapt my communication with your suggestions, will keep you posted :). Wish me luck :). I am really glad to have found your website, i have used other sites before local to UK and have only managed to get connected with 4 to 5 scammers in as many weeks 🙁 wanting to extract money out of… Read more »
Good luck, Gaz!
I have been looking at your site determining to join or not to join. The info on your site is helpful in knowing what I need to do. I want someone who is: my age 45-60, someone who is an ordinary woman. (A lot of the women are doctors , lawyers, engineers. How do I get the system filters to find some one who is middle class like me?). , a lot of the women I see are very beautiful. How do I get them to like someone like me. I’m 62, and don’t look like I did at 20.… Read more »
Glen, When you register a profile, you get 20 free expressions of interest (EOI) to send to women you like. The women will answer “Yes” or “No”, indicating whether they are interested or not. This will give you an idea what to expect—and it’s free. (Some women won’t answer; it’s also normal. Contact women who were active in the last 24 hours or “Online Now” to increase chances of getting a response.) You are also likely to get some EOIs from women in response to your profile. Make sure you read this post what to include in your dating profile.… Read more »
Elena: I am from Canada and have been a platinum member for only a month and this is the first dating site I have ever been on so there has been a bit of a learning curve for me, being 55 (just got Viber downloaded on my phone last night, first app ever! lol). I feel lucky to have found you and this site and commend you on the work you are doing! I read you blogs, website articles, and some success stories but have not found anything on men who end up living in the country of the woman’s… Read more »
David, Our research indicated that women seek a partner abroad mostly because they could not find him at home, unhappy with the way local men behave, or feel that foreign men make better partners. Less than 10% of women on our site are motivated by immigration. So, most women 35+ would be excited by the option to find a man willing to move to her country. Regarding the language, Russians and Ukrainians learn a foreign language at school for 6 years + further 3 years at the college (passing an exam at the end both times), so they know at… Read more »