During the stage of online dating people strive to get to know each other to determine whether they wish to meet in person. If you are dating a Russian woman, these are the things ladies wish to know about you.

10 things that Russian women wish to know about men they are dating

When considering a long-term relationship, certainly one would like to find out as much as possible about the future partner. At the same time, some things are more important than others.

These are the top-10 things that Russian women wish to know about guys they are dating, as I discovered through my discussions with ladies.

1. What are the man’s intentions?

By intentions ladies mean the purpose of communication. Russian women who seek partners online basically unanimously wish to find someone for a lifetime relationship.

If you say it in your profile and at the start of your communication, this will help you to ensure ladies that your intentions are honourable (as opposed to dishonourable intentions such as flirting or hooking up).

Russian women who seek partners online basically unanimously wish to find someone for a lifetime relationship.

2. How serious is he about me?

Obviously, you don’t even know it yourself at the start. This question is in a way a variant of the first one, just this time she wishes to know whether you consider her a potential candidate for a lifetime relationship.

If you simply tell her, “I am looking for a lifetime relationship with one woman, and I think it could be you, this is why I want to get to know you better”, this could be just the message a Russian woman wishes to hear.

She wishes to know whether you consider her a potential candidate for a lifetime relationship.

3. Is he mentally and psychologically stable?

Naturally, as you communicate, she will get to know more about you and will be able to find out. But at the start when women get so many messages from different guys, it could be a challenge to pick the right people to communicate with.

If you get to talk to her on video quickly enough and show yourself as a calm, collected, and stable person, she will feel much more eager to continue communication.

If you get to talk to her on video quickly enough and show yourself as a calm, collected, and stable person, she will feel much more eager to continue communication.

4. Is he financially stable?

This question is important as it will determine whether there is indeed a potential for a real-life relationship. Some guys have dreams to find a Russian girlfriend, but they are unable to pay for flights to meet a woman in another country, or may even expect that the lady must simply fly to him.

Such arrangements are possible but, in most cases, not probable. Usually, a man would have to fly to meet a lady and, probably, assist the Russian woman with expenses if she also has to travel to meet him.

Financially stable is important as it will determine whether there is indeed a potential for a real-life relationship.

5. Is he telling the truth about his age?

You may find it hard to believe, but sizeable numbers of guys take a few years off their real age. Russian ladies have encountered such deception online and start wondering if the man she is talking to listed correct details in his dating profile.

It could help to say something along the lines, “All my information in the profile is true and correct, as I find honesty extremely important in a relationship.”. It will also communicate your values in a respectable way.

It could help to say something along the lines, “All my information in the profile is true and correct, as I find honesty extremely important in a relationship.”.

6. What does his home look like?

This question is easy to answer: Simply give her a virtual tour of your home. Make sure, of course, the place is clean and tidy, as if you were having a guest over.

In the majority of cases, it is the woman who moves to a man’s home, so, of course, she is interested what type of living conditions she can expect, if she chooses to be with you.

This question is easy to answer: Simply give her a virtual tour of your home.

7. Why is he single?

Good men are hard to find in Russia, so when you look nice and sound wonderful, a lady starts wondering what is the reason that you are not in a relationship.

For her, the reason why she is alone is obvious: Because good men are hard to find in Russia. But Russian women don’t think you could be in exactly the same situation.

Why is he single?

8. Will he organize a personal meeting if we like each other, or would it have to be me, to propel the relationship forward all the time?

In general, women in Russia are dictated by the society to be passive in their relations with men. A lady is supposed to simply wait for a man to make the moves, and even then, she is expected to appear not too eager, rather hesitant. It’s all part of the requirement of modesty, which is considered a virtue.

Western men, on the other hand, would see such behaviour as lack of interest. Some women are aware of that and try to be more open and welcoming, but it’s not easy for them.

I often hear from women that they feel men give them mixed messages, because they aren’t pushy and demanding (as Russian men are).

It would make a lady feel much more relaxed if you clearly stated at the start of your communication that if you like each other, you would organize your personal meeting. In this case, she doesn’t have to worry about carrying the load, as well as whether you understand what is required to make this relationship happen.

A lady is supposed to simply wait for a man to make the moves, and even then, she is expected to appear not too eager, rather hesitant.

9. Is he talking only to me or to many other women?

It’s widely believed that men are competitive by nature, while women are quite the opposite. If there is some competition, many Russian women would prefer to simply remove themselves from the pool of choices, rather than do their best to “win the man”.

It is again a part of the modesty requirement that tells women to be rather passive, to attract the best guy who will love her dearly.

Even if you are talking to several ladies (and you should, to really be able to compare and choose the person who is really compatible), tell her that you like her and really would love to fall in love with someone as wonderful as she.

Tell her that you like her and really would love to fall in love with someone as wonderful as she.

10. How long does he want to correspond for, before a personal meeting?

Some guys wish to correspond for 1-2 years before deciding to meet in person. Others believe they should have 3-4 meetings over 12-18 months before they are able to make a decision whether this is the right lady.

Anything that makes it look like a long and complicated challenge, will put a Russian woman off. And vice versa, anything that makes it sound like an easy and fun adventure, will make her excited about you.

It’s up to you what you choose to express, but remember this equation: Fun and easy make her fall for you, and complex and hard make her wish to move on.

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