When you start dating Russian women online, you begin a conversation that could become a start of a new relationship. This is why the questions you ask are significant.

Ask Russian women these questions to make a relationship flourish

Ladies from Russia who join international dating sites would like to meet guys abroad because they feel they struggle to find someone locally.

You are probably aware that there are only 86 males in Russia for 100 females. This huge demographic disproportion has remained the key issue why some Russian women opt to seek partners abroad since early 1990s, for the last 30 years.

The reasons why males in Russia tend to have a much shorter life expectancy lie in culture that promotes unnecessary risks and high incidence of binge drinking, leading to lots of accidents. The risky behaviours are seen as “manly” and encouraged, while ladylike behaviours are encouraged in females.

The desire to be a good wife and mother is cultivated in females since childhood in Russia, this is why women tend to hold marriage and family in high regard as values to uphold.

Knowing this, you may guess what kind of questions would make a Russian woman feel comfortable and see you as a great relationship prospect.

The desire to be a good wife and mother is cultivated in females since childhood in Russia, this is why women tend to hold marriage and family in high regard as values to uphold.

Ask these questions to make her favour you over other guys

Most guys ask regular questions like “What are you doing for a living?” or “Why are you looking for a partner abroad?”

Not only it’s annoying to get the same questions all the time, but also it makes the woman feel like you are interviewing her and not believing her intentions of simply looking for the right partner for her. (Which is the same reason why you are looking for a partner outside your locality, right?)

If you understand her struggle and appreciate the bravery it took to simply list her profile on an international dating site, you are better of opting for different types of questions.

Most guys ask regular questions like “What are you doing for a living?” or “Why are you looking for a partner abroad?”

1. Show her you value her heritage

Russia is the largest country on Earth, nearly twice the size of the USA. It is covering 11 time zones from east to west. Russia was the first country to send a man into outer space. There are plenty of other important cultural hallmarks that Russians see as significant.

Ask questions like:

• I am so fascinated by Russian history. It has such a rich history and many achievements. What do you see as the most important contribution by Russia to the world?
• I looked up your city online and it sounds captivating. What do you like about living there? What other Russian cities do you like?
• I know all foreigners probably want to visit Moscow and St. Petersburg, as these two cities are the most famous. But I am sure Russia has plenty of other places that are amazing. Which places do you think are worth visiting?

Show her you value her heritage.

2. Demonstrate your willingness to visit her country

You need to meet somehow, so why not visit Russia and discover an enchanting new country and meet a lovely lady you got to know at the same time?

Even if you don’t see yourself travelling to Russia at this point in time, you can start talking about a future visit, and discuss routes you may consider.

Many couples set a meeting at a location that is easily accessible at first, and this is what you may decide to do eventually. But let the lady be your local guide in the online conversation about a potential visit to her country.

It would be fun for her to come with ideas and you will be able to see her as a travel partner and what she will be able to contribute.

Ask her:

• If I were to come to Russia for 2-3 weeks, what do you think should I see? Except for meeting you, of course! This I want to do for sure.
• What is the best way to reach your city if I decide to fly to Russia to see you? Are there direct flights from other countries that your friends or acquaintances usually use?
• What is the best time of the year to visit your city?
• Which good hotels are close to the place where you live, where I could stay when I visit?
• I know it’s really premature and may sound a bit upfront, but if I decided to visit you, is there any chance I could stay with you? I promise to be a perfect gentleman and I would never do anything you wouldn’t want me to do. (If not, I fully understand and I won’t feel offended.)

Many couples set a meeting at a location that is easily accessible at first, and this is what you may decide to do eventually.

3. Ask about her view of an ideal relationship

Without asking, you can assume her ideal relationship would be a committed partnership for life. But it’s worth asking, so that she can tell you what she wants without apprehension.

To allow a Russian woman feel safe in expressing her true views, it’s important how you ask these questions.

Ask her something like this:

• I am looking for a partner for life and a strong marriage. I assume you are looking for the same. But even when people agree on the major things, they sometimes may have different ideas about certain things in a relationship. Can I ask you about your views on a marriage and roles that both partners play? Do you want to have children and if yes, how many? If you could choose whether to stay at home or work outside home, which option would you prefer? There is no right or wrong answer and I am sure we can work out a solution that makes both of us happy. I just want to know what you think about it.

If you have other questions that are important for you, ask them as well, but always say first that you are looking to get married. This is the most important thing that Russian women want to know, that they are not being played.

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