If you have kids, then you probably understand what is involved in raising a helpless human being! Depending on the age of kids, pitfalls of dating a single mom may vary.
3 typical pitfalls of dating a single mother
- Small kids cannot be left alone. Most women won’t even leave alone a child over 12, usually until they are at least 15-16, and even then, not for the whole night.
- It’s harder for single moms to arrange dates. However, this also means if she is making an effort to see you, she considers you special.
- Her kids will always remain her priority, at least until they are out of the house. Which doesn’t mean she is not going to be attentive to you: Simply put, you are an adult who can take care of himself while kids can’t exist on their own and she is responsible for them.
If you found yourself attracted to a lady who has a child, check these tips for dating single moms.
In general, I find that women who have children are much more realistic and balanced in their approach to dating. So, they are a great relationship material, if you are seeking something more permanent.
On Elenasmodels.com, we have many couples where a lady was a single mother. Russian and Ukrainian women usually have kids fairly early, just like western women used to have children in their twenties, not late thirties.
Why are there so many Russian women in their twenties who are divorced with kids?
In Russia, a girl who is 26 years old is officially considered an “old first time mother” if she is . She would be looked after by the midwives with a much greater attention as compared to younger females: More health checks would be scheduled, she might be required to stay in a hospital by up to two weeks before her due date, to ensure the pregnancy is preserved.
Yes, there are whole rooms for expectant mothers with various health conditions that could be a hazard to carrying a pregnancy to full term, and the “advanced age” of 26+ is one of them!
This is why most women in their twenties in Russia already have kids. The average age at which females have their first child in Russia is 24.
This fact also has its implications in terms of how women who don’t have kids and are unmarried by the age of 27 are treated in Russia: They are seen as “old maids”, especially in smaller towns (in capitals like Moscow and St. Petersburg views are more liberal).
This, in addition to the general societal view that “a woman’s happiness is in her family”, which drives Russian girls to consider marriage their highest priority in life, way more important than education or career, is the reason why females try to get married as soon as possible and quickly start a family. They genuinely believe that unless she gets married and has children, she will never be happy in life.
The birth rate in Russia is down (deaths exceed births currently, according to the latest statistics), so the propaganda machine promotes early childbirth heavily, in an attempt to stop a new demographic gap.
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