Let’s say I would be willing to pay you a load of money if you jumped on 1 leg for 1 mile. Let’s say the amount is $1,000,000. Would you be willing to do it, knowing the payout is guaranteed?
The action itself might seem silly to you, but if the payout is large enough and assured, then why not? Even if you weren’t 100% sure that you are capable of completing the task, the reward is substantial enough to prompt you to attempt the challenge.
Remember this notion as we are checking your other options!
There is no need to invent the wheel
By Elena Petrova
The wheel has been invented and you can simply use it. This invention is not patented, it’s for everyone.
In the same way, there is the right way to achieve everything you want in life — including dating Ukrainian women, since you are already here, on Elenasmodels.com, the site for meeting someone for a long-term relationship.
It is a very simple process if you follow it, to succeed in dating women from Ukraine. But some guys just don’t want to follow this process. They dislike the very idea of doing something different to what they are accustomed to doing. They even say it’s silly to do it the way the ladies envision the courting process.
Would you jump on one leg for 1 mile for 1 million dollars?
I know I would!
If someone told me, “Jump on the left leg for 1 mile and I will give you 1 million dollars”, I would do my best to complete the task — no matter how stupid it may seem to onlookers. I wouldn’t question why this is necessary. I would only ask myself, “Do I want the reward?”
If I want the reward and I know exactly what is required from me — and I am capable of doing it — I would definitely just do it.
Maybe I wouldn’t succeed the first time and I would need to do some training and do it again. But if I really wanted the reward, I would do it.
I wouldn’t say to the person who wants to give me the reward, “Look, this is stupid. Just give me the money and we both can go our ways”.
I would just do what is required. It’s simple enough, so why not?
Makes sense?
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In dating Ukrainian women, some guys think it’s silly to do what is required
If you would be willing to jump on 1 leg for 1 mile for $1,000,000, no matter how silly it is, then there should be no problem to do what is required to marry the woman of your dreams.
But for some reason, some guys think that doing what is required to win hearts of Ukrainian women is too silly and they refuse to do it.
The result is that they suffer unnecessary pain, because what they are doing is not working. It cannot work because the women expect a different thing, but guys are only willing to do what they wish to give.
Do you remember Carnegie’s phrase about giving worms to the fish even though he personally prefers strawberries and cream? It’s the same logic here.
- Give the ladies from Ukraine what they want — and you will succeed.
- Don’t give Ukrainian girls what they seek — and you will fail.
How simple is that?
‘If these girls are like this, I don’t want them — they should drop their silly games’
This is what one of the guys told me — seriously!
But if you don’t want them as they are, why are you even considering dating them? They aren’t going to change for you. Unless you give them what they want, they aren’t interested and you are wasting your time and create unnecessary pain for yourself.
And here I want to ask again: Are you one of these guys who love pain?
If not, download the VIP Coaching Program for men dating Ukrainian women and learn the process, then simply follow the steps outlined for you.
If you love the pain… then just keep doing what you are doing, maybe one day it will work! Who knows.
Privet Enena), Your blog is very inspiring! I am pursuing a girl in Minsk and would like to get advices from you to win her heart! Here is my story: I met a girl in the Great Patriotic War Museum. She is a museum tour guide. Now I am pursuing her! Below is my story. Please give me any advice to win her heart!It was an ordinary Thursday afternoon. I visited the History of the Great Patriotic War Museum and want to learn more about the history of Belarus. As I was visiting, I saw a tour guide conducting museum… Read more »
Excellent story, Kai! I don’t think it’s hunter-prey though. She was very clear more than once that she doesn’t see you as a romantic interest, period. The fact she was sweet at first, all Russian and Belarus women are very sweet when they meet a nice man; it doesn’t mean she had any romantic interest. It would be the other way around: Cold at first, sweet and coy when she found out that you are seriously interested in her, if she liked you as a romantic interest.
Thank you very much, I take your advice. It was a good dream. But after I wake up I still need to keep going.
There are many girls who would like you, just probably not this one 🙂
Спасибо!
Elena, I had a question about your view of the social and state propaganda that gets Russian women to want a husband and children early in life and that is what will bring happiness to the women. I think I was engaged to a woman still holding such beliefs in Russia during my first trip to Russia. Having briefly met her years later during my recently completed second trip to Russia, I learned a number of beliefs of hers had dramatically changed. For example, she no longer needed or wanted a man to help her raise her son to be… Read more »
Roger, most women still hold such beliefs. It takes exposure to different views and real experiences to overcome such brainwashing, and most women in Russia never had such exposure. It’s not about the age; it’s about experiencing a different type of relationship.
This is not the end:
“Would you jump on one leg for 1 mile for 1 million dollars?”
The end is this:
Would you jumping on only one leg for your later life to keep that 1 million dollars, otherwise you would lost it?
If you want, and can change (or do things differently) ok.
If not and artificially change at the beginning that is just a lie, and mask, will turn out sooner or later.
Robert, are you referring to the needyo court the woman once you win her over? It never happens in Russian relationships: Once a woman agreed to sleep with a man and they became a couple, she virtually becomes his slave: She cooks, cleans, shops for groceries, washes his clothes, irons his shorts, looks after kids and home, and it’s her responsibility to keep the husband intimately happy, or he is free to cheat and it will be deemed her fault (in Russia it’s always the woman’s fault if the man cheats).
So, once you got your prize, it’s yours.
Well You mentinoed about time to time to impress/ conquer again your marriage partner. Probably I had misunderstand, and this one is the concrete.
But even this case if the woman after a succesful courtship process happy with everithing (? then what about divorce rates there) by my side I feel dishonest to act so differently after after marriage.
Robert, it’s up to you what you do. I am only explaining how it works, and why Russian, Ukrainian women men expect certain things in a courtship from a man.
You are welcome to check with women yourself in communication if you are so interested in the national customs! 🙂