Cheating is never a simple thing, but being unfaithful is universally condemned, regardless of the location. In Russia, this is most commonly the trait associated with men, but there are also tips for men how to figure out if the wife is cheating.

13 tips to determine a cheating wife

How to figure out if a partner isn’t faithful has been a question many a man asked himself. These tips offer some ideas.

1. She is hiding her phone

Mobile phones are the essence of a person’s life in our times, so, if the wife is cheating, there is a trace on this device. This is why she takes care to guard it. Most likely, the cheating spouse has also changed passwords in her social media accounts and keeps her phone on silent.

2. She suddenly started to take a lot of care of her appearance

This sign is universal for both genders. Sudden attention to looks is typical of cheating spouses. If she had never been into fitness and healthy eating, and all of a sudden she’s on diet and at the gym 7 days a week, that could be a sign of a cheater. If in addition she bought a lot of new clothes as well as lingerie, then it’s definitely a red flag to check.

3. She often disappears to help a friend

The friend keeps needing her help all the time: From the need to look after the child to assistance with spring cleaning. And then she takes her out as a “thank you”. But possibly, the reliable friend is being used as a cover up. Next time when she is out with the girlfriend, pay them a surprise visit! It could give you the answers you are looking for.

4. She is spending an enormous amount of time at work

Before she couldn’t stand her colleagues, but now goes to all corporate parties and works late day after day. She comes back happy rather than depleted, but this cheerful mood quickly dissipates once she steps inside home.

5. She compares you to other men

Nothing you do seems to be good enough, there is always someone doing it better, although just recently she was very happy with the same things.

6. She stopped asking for assistance

Things around the house that went wrong are no longer brought to your attention. The wife seems content with a broken tap and the paint job you promised to attend to is no longer on her mind.

7. She goes out alone a lot

She doesn’t even ask you to accompany her, and if you offer, the explanation is around the lines, “You won’t like it” or “There will be only girls”.

8. She doesn’t answer your calls

You call, but she doesn’t answer. Later she may explain that the phone was out of charge or something was wrong with the connection, or she left it behind.

9. She struggles to look you in the eyes

A cheating wife feels guilty and this may cause her avoid visual contact. When she cannot avoid looking at you, she acts unnaturally, tries to appear busy or changes the topic.

10. She lost interest in sex

It seems like she is always too busy or asleep to engage in lovemaking. If this happens, it feels mechanical and unemotional.

11. She is annoyed by body contact

It seems like kisses or touches irritate her. If you say something about it, she acts offended.

12. She complains about lack of attention from your side

While it is actually her who is withdrawing, she puts the blame on you for paying too little attention to her, not feeling loved. If you try to get closer, you only get rejected.

13. She no longer tries to keep it together

Seems like she is just looking for a reason to explode. Any suggestion about working things out gets rejected and criticized.

What to do if you suspect your partner is unfaithful?

Make sure you confirm your suspicions before jumping to any conclusions or take action. Monitor your spouse’s behaviour consistently and don’t show that you think something is going on. You don’t want to destroy your relationship yourself, if you are wrong.

If your suspicions that your wife is cheating on you are confirmed, then you can think what to do next.

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