Sometimes I wonder what the men on ElenasModels.com came for. There is only one legitimate reason to be here — you want to find a woman to marry. Because this is what women who register on an international dating site are seeking: To find a partner for a lifetime relationship and marriage.

If you are here for any other purpose, you are at the wrong place.

Women on Elenasmodels.com seek a husband

I understand that in the western dating culture it became inappropriate to date with a goal to find a spouse. You are supposed to date just to hang out together, to find a relationship — even seeking quick sex is not looked down upon — but if you wish to find a wife, then you are viewed as a stalker or some possessive type. First you are supposed find someone who is “The Love of Your Life” and only then you are allowed to start thinking about marriage.

But what is wrong with wanting to find a partner for marriage initially? Since when it became something you should be ashamed of? In the Russian language, wanting to find a partner for marriage is called “having serious intentions”. As opposed to “frivolous intentions”, which means that you just want to hang out and have sex, without an intention to get married and start a family.

Finding a “soul mate” or “true love” doesn’t make sense for Russian women and Ukrainian girls, who come to ElenasModels.com to find a husband. They had already relationships with men locally, who were happy to hang out together and even probably told them they loved them, but these guys didn’t want to marry them.

So, for these ladies, it doesn’t make sense to just hang out together, enjoy time out and each other. They can have it at home any time. There is no lack of willing men to hang out, have sex without obligations, these men are willing to spend money and invest time in these relationships; it’s just one thing that is missing — these guys are not interested in getting married.

Girls come to Elenasmodels.com because they hope they can find a man who wants to get married.

These couples met on ElenasModels.com. You can meet your future wife here, too!

Women are not looking for a father figure

I know it’s not a popular notion for international dating sites, which try to convince you that Ukrainian girls love older men. They tell you that Russian women prefer men who are more mature. It’s true, but they seek men who are older by 2-5 years, not by 20. On international dating sites, women are ready to accept a potential age difference up to 10 years. She may stretch her limits up to 12-13 years if the guy seems to be just perfect for her.

15 years, in my opinion, is an absolute limit for a marriage that will be rock-solid. But from my experience, 7-10 years age difference or less will work long-term better for you and her.

Are you looking for a life partner?

Or are you first of all looking for a woman who will give you a child? Be honest, at least with yourself.

If you are older and looking for a young woman who can give you a child, you will probably have the most success if you simply state it in your profile this way. Yes, women are not looking for a father figure, true, but they also can understand a desire of a man to have a child, because this is what they wish themselves, to have a spouse and a family. They will understand the desire to get married and have a family, but not the stated intention to “find true love” or “my soul mate”. Be honest.

Women definitely are looking for a good father of their future kids. Don’t be scared to state that you want to have a family and kids. Don’t be afraid to say clearly that you wish to get married and looking for a wife either. It’s not a local dating site; it’s a club for singles who are sick and tired of seeking a match in their home towns and wish to expand their horizons and find someone who seeks exactly the same things in life.

Unless you state it clearly, how will she find out if you are right for her?

Women on ElenasModels.com seek the right partner for marriage. If this is what you are looking for, say so!

Are you just seeking entertainment?

Women keep complaining that lots of guys seem to just want to chat on messengers and Skype but never make any move to take the relationship from online interactions to the real world. If you are not intending to get married, then it’s unfair of you to waste women’s time.

You are actually making these women to spend their time and emotional effort on you, and they are not seeking online chats or entertainment, but wish to get married. Your wasting half a year of her time may mean she will never find a husband, never become a mother, as time is more cruel to women than to men. You can become a father at 55, but can’t.

If you are not seeking a wife and a real relationship, but simply wish to chat online, go to PPL sites. Then it’s fair; you will be paying to women who are chatting to you. They, too, aren’t writing letters to get married, but to earn a living. You are paying for their time and you both are getting what you want: You get love chats, they are getting a wage.

But if you are chatting to women here without the sincere desire to move your romance to the real world, meet in person and get married, you are scamming these women out of their most precious resource, which is irreplaceable, time.

Do you want to find a woman to marry?

If you really want to find a wife, then stop screwing around. Stop “trying” and “just do it”.

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