There is one little secret that will help you to get to a Russian woman’s heart. It may sound simple, but it works wonders.
The secret that opens doors to hearts of Russian women
All guys in Russia know it, but foreigners often overlook it, even when they are told about it.
Why?
Possibly, they think it’s too simplistic or silly, so they just shrug it and do what they are used to doing.
But the problem is, unless you use this secret from the start, it’s impossible to make up for that. You only have one chance to make the first impression, right?
So, what is the magic secret that opens doors to the hearts of beautiful Russian girls?
Flowers. Russian ladies absolutely adore flowers!
They are simply crazy about these bunches of pretty blossoms. To them, it’s something special and magical. A man who gives her bouquets, by default, a desirable specimen, even if he doesn’t have any other advantages. Somehow, over the last two decades in Russia the dating culture created this unique proposition where flowers are men’s answer to everything!
- Going to the first date? You need to bring flowers, or it’s rude and discourteous.
- Second date? If you bring a bouquet, she starts thinking you are the man of her dreams.
- It’s her birthday or another holiday? Don’t even worry what to buy for a present, flowers are Russian girls’ best friend. (Unless, of course, she told you openly what she wants for her birthday, in this case just give her what she wants… Plus a bouquet of pretty blossoms!)
- Visiting her parents? A bouquet for the mother and a bottle of hard liquor for the father — and they think you are the right guy for their daughter.
- You did something wrong and she is upset? You know how to fix it, right? Of course, buy a bunch of flowers!
How easy is that?
Are there ladies in Russia who don’t love flowers?
There are some ladies who may not be completely crazy about flowers, like the vast majority of female population of Russia. But even they won’t be mad at you if you brought her a bunch of gorgeous roses.
Yes, there was a guy who met his girlfriend on Elenasmodels.com, and they were planning to meet. His girlfriend asked him whether he heard about Russian girl’s penchant for flowers, and he said he had. She told him that she used to work as a florist and had enough of the various blossoms, so he didn’t need to do that for her.
He decided otherwise and brought a sweet little bouquet for her, which he gave her right at the airport. The lady smiled happily! She was still happy to get the bouquet, even though she told him not to do it, and it was even a more unexpected surprise and thus very pleasant!
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Thank you Elena for all your writings which help bridge the cultural gap between girls of FSU and guys of ROW (rest of world) and, also, thank you for your VIP Coaching book, which teaches guys how to be real gentlemen, something which has been long lost in my culture. Dozens of your blogs, as well as my own language and literature studies, have taught me much about Russian life. One need not go further than Chekhov’s “Lady with a Dog” or Tolstoy’s “Anna Karenina” to find two ubiquitous themes in Russian culture: alcohol and adultery. Though neither Muslim nor… Read more »
Nanker, there is no need to drink alcohol with your future father-in-law. The simple explanation, “I do not drink, ever”, will work fine.