Whenever I see general questions, it makes me smile. Whether or not something is going to work for you, (assuming it can actually work) depends, firstly, on you.
I meet people who met online all the time. In fact, I think everyone knows someone, who met their partner through an online dating site. I feel once people are over 20 and out of college, meeting single men or women online is by far easier than in any other way. It also removes any potential embarrassment of trying to hit on someone only to find out that they are already involved.
“We met online” no longer has stigmas attached. In fact, I believe in a few years people will be more embarrassed to admit they have met in a bar.
Online dating works for people who use it. People who “try” online dating, which means they register on a site, send a few of letters, don’t get results they expected, and give up — these people probably feel differently. But people who use online dating like any other tool, taking time to learn and figure out how it works, they do get positive results.
Thinking of that, imagine a man who decides to go out and meet women. He doesn’t dress up, goes to a bar, and tries to approach 2-3 prettiest women, without even thinking how to start a conversation. It doesn’t work, and he goes home upset, thinking that meeting women while going out isn’t a good option, and deciding to give up.
In a similar way, you need to put nice photos and some interesting content into your profile, before starting conversations with women. The great thing about dating online is that you can talk to many different women, after you have checked their profiles, so you already know a little bit about them, and it’s easier to start a conversation about something they have said in their texts. You are able to keep learning and improving your online dating skills without anyone else noticing what you are doing.
On Elena’s Models, with Gold Membership you can contact 50 women. With Platinum Membership you may contact as many ladies as you want. Communicating through the site doesn’t cost you any extra, so you can keep chatting and emailing back and forth, while maintaining your privacy. When you feel you have a genuine connection, you can get off the dating site.
Realistic expectations and honest communication also make the job easier. Putting an effort and time will always help to reap rewards. Knowing what you want and when you want it to happen, also known as planning and goal setting, are another two factors that stir the boat in the right direction.
Ultimately, online dating will work for you if you work on it. That’s probably the shortest advice I can give to anyone pondering over this question.
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It does! Elenasmodels made me happy once – we have been married for 4 years… unfortunatly, we grew apart as partners but still are fantastic friends and see each other now and again to cach up.
so here I am, a criminal back to a crime scene:)) hope 2nd time will be the last one:)
Good luck to all of you ladies and gentlemen!!!
I have tried to do the things that you have said but I still can’t get much interest. What about us guys who are average? Nothing stands out with me. I am a good,honest,simple guy.I have a big heart with lots of love to give somebody.It is hard to have confidence when you get turned down repeatedly. I still look and I don’t give up hope of finding her someday.
Joey, I have checked your profile and here are some points: – You’ve been a member for several years but never bought a membership, just a few individual contacts. As I write everywhere (see top 10 online dating mistakes) you need to send out a lot of mails and EOI’s and establish a good connection with at least 3-10 women, then narrow down to 1 you want to meet in person. Also girls do look at your membership level. Buy Platinum or Ultimate membership to distinguish yourself as a serious candidate and have the ability to contact as many women… Read more »
In the modern world everything is possible. And online meetings are a normal thing. People used to spend much time surfing the Internet. It is a part of our everyday life. It is much easier to get new friends online. Moreover, in the Internet you may see and know about some person’s ideas, tastes and interests quicker than in the real life. As for me I spend in the Internet some hours a day and I have got new ways of getting money, met new friends and just interesting people to get on.