Some guys don’t get a response from a woman, either positive or negative, after sending an Expression of Interest (EOI) through the site or when they messaged the lady. Does it mean she isn’t interested?

Most often, if the lady didn’t answer you within a week, it means she isn’t interested

Women prefer to avoid sending a rejection, particularly, because they loathe being rejected by men. Ladies are very sensitive when they send a guy an EOI and he rejects it. Some women say that outright: They review all EOI’s but only respond to men they like with positive messages.

On the site, we advise ladies to respond to all incoming messages, but they find it easier to simply not answer.

Thus, in majority of cases no response means ‘No”.

In some cases the woman may have never seen the message. Some men and women register and never login to the website again. Their profiles get approved and they start receiving mails, but they may have never login again to check them.

Or it may happen people checked their messages for a few days and then stopped doing it. Check if the lady logged in to the site recently through viewing the time stamp in her profile, when did she login for the last time (today, yesterday, etc.).

Is it possible that the lady is interested but doesn’t respond?

It may be that she is unsure what to respond. Or she forgot to click the button to answer.

If you really liked this person, you may try to send an email in addition to an EOI (if you started with the expression of interest), but don’t put too much hopes on that.

Some girls may feel overwhelmed with getting even 10-20 messages and they only respond to a few first guys and then stop answering. It happens with men the same way, so it’s not only one gender that behaves in this particular fashion.

Of course, it would be great if all people answered to every person who contacted them, but it’s probably an utopian thought.

• In short, don’t hold your breath if the lady you really liked didn’t answer. Most likely, the silence means lack of interest.
• But if you are really interested, you can try again. If there is no answer the second time and the lady keeps logging in to the site, then you know the answer is ‘No’.

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