I have an Instagram account for  women with tips on how to build a good relationship after meeting someone online, and ladies tell me that some men insist at the start of their communication that they would need to talk for a long time, meet several times in real life, and so on, before making a decision if they wish to be together with someone. Does it really help to choose a partner or not?

How many times should you meet before committing to each other?

We have many happy couples who met on Elenasmodels.com (you can see their photos and read their stories here), and most of them only met once or twice before deciding to be together.

Most of them, of course, didn’t get married straight away, but opted to apply for a fiancée visa and spend a few months together before the wedding, living under the same roof. But definitely, over 80% of happy couples didn’t waste time being apart in different countries for months or years, but rather wished to be together as soon as they realized this was the person they have been looking for.

Why would you need to meet several times before making a decision to be together?

Some people feel that before committing to a marriage, one needs to really know the other person. This is true, but usually you can quickly see if the person isn’t right for you, if you know yourself and what your plans and aspirations in life are.

If you and the woman have the same goals and aspirations, your lifestyles and values match, it’s easy to notice, as one cannot really hide it but constantly show it in their behaviour and words.

If you both are open with each other and able to discuss any topic like two adults who want to be together for life, then it’s not hard to see whether you are in alignment. Discussing life experiences and plans is the best way to find out who is who and what they want.

Some people feel that before committing to a marriage, one needs to really know the other person.

Money, religion, politics, and health

Usually, these topics are taboo in a polite conversation, but when you are dating online while being in different countries, but your goal is to have a life-long relationship, then it is precisely these themes that need to be discussed.

Sure, you won’t be jumping into such conversations with any random person you just met online. But if you have been chatting with each other for 2-3 weeks and you like what you see and hear, let the lady know it. And then you can say that you can see a possibility of a future together. If the lady agrees, then it’s green light to discussing more in-depth topics.

If the lady agrees, then it’s green light to discussing more in-depth topics.

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