If you are just starting in dating Russian women, you may be wondering what is the best way to start communication. Whether you have some experience in online dating locally or not, what you do when contacting ladies from Russia is somewhat different. This is what you should write in the first message when contacting a lady from Russia online.

How dating girls from Russia works

We are talking about international dating here, when you live outside Russia, while she is there.

In works very similar with Russian women who reside in your country, if they live there for less than 20 years. If they have been there for longer, they probably are fully accustomed to local traditions.

• Russian women expect a man to want a serious relationship, not just a hook up.
• They would like the male to initiate, but they may try to attract your attention with a like to your photo or a wink (expression of interest on sites like com). But still, all women would prefer a man to make the first move. You can improve your results greatly by initiating communication; the lady already feels flattered.
• She’s like to see several of your photos where you are dressed neatly as if you were going to a wedding, at the very least, to a job interview. The better you look on the photos in your profile, the more positive responses you will get. It’s worth investing in a professional photo shoot, if you really want to meet a worthy long-term partner; this may be the best investment you ever made.
• Ladies want to know, first of all, what are your intentions (remember, they want someone who seeks a serious relationship). This is why you needs to spell it out in your profile openly, both in the part where you are asked what type of relationship you are looking for and in your message. It’s best not to talk in metaphors like “I wish to meet my soul mate” but simply state, “I wish to get married and spend the rest of my life together with my wife” or “I want to create a family” (the latter is a stable construction in the Russian language that means you want to get married). Even if you do not know for sure at the moment that you want this with the lady you are contacting, saying this is your ultimate goal if you meet the right woman will increase your chances tenfold.
• After you created a great profile, nearly anything you write to a lady in the first message will be welcomed! But the best results you will get if you write a special message discussing things she wrote about herself in her profile.

I have more tips like this in my dating coaching program for men dating Russian women.

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