Reading tips for Russian women seeking partners makes you realize how different is the dating environment in their country. Womanhit.ru expert Maria Blavatskaia points our 4 major mistakes typical of ladies in search of a good husband. Can you guess what they could be? Let’s see if you are anywhere close to the ideas typical for Russia.

Mistakes that Russian women make when choosing a life partner

“According to statistics, one of the major problems for female residents of large cities if the absence of a permanent partner. Sometimes desperation drives a woman to grab the first available man, who is usually absolutely not suitable, and as the consequence, a speedy divorce, and everything repeats in a circle,” Blavatskaia states.

This is not a “brides by mail” catalogue you are reading, but an expert of a women’s magazine who is trying to assist ladies of Russia in their quest to become happy in a relationship. So, it’s indeed true even today that finding a partner is hard for Russian women in large cities.

So, what tips the local experts offers that would ensure a woman’s happiness and marital bliss for many years to come? What are the typical reasons for making wrong choices and how to fix these errors?

1.Your ideal is unreal

“Perfection doesn’t exist, which doesn’t mean one shouldn’t strive for it,” the expert muses. The same can be said about the search for a candidate for the position of a husband.

Of course, one would love the guy to be the mix of cool but contradictive qualities: both manly and gentle, decisive and easy-going, passionate and gentle. Finding a man who is all of these things is practically impossible. Many women desperately refuse to recognize this fact, hoping to meet “that right guy” and at the same time disregarding candidates who are real and accessible.

Try to create a list of qualities that are important for you in a man and think about each of them: Does he really have to have it or his other strengths compensate for the lack of it.

2.The man may not be attracted to you

Another frequent mistake is to push a man, or maybe even several guys, who genuinely are not attracted to you. It happens, we all have a “type”, and it’s not about you personally. When a guy is detached, some women take it as a call to win him over, turning a cool detachment into an active turn off. Not many people enjoy pursuits by someone they dislike.

“A relationship cannot be built just on a one-sided pursuit and an open lack of interest from the other side. It is important to understand that you also resonate in another person’s heart,” Blavatsaia states.

3.You interact with men while under the influence

Many busy women make this mistake: They accept a man’s approach when they had a few drinks. Most often unsuitable romances begin when a business lady is on her yearly vacation after a year of working hard. When she is trying to relax, she may hook up with a man that she wouldn’t give a second look in a her regular environment. Such unions born out of boredom on the beach are destined to fail.

4.There is a message on your forehead

It’s clear when a woman is looking for a husband, the expert believes. If a long awaited relationship isn’t eventuating, a woman starts taking active measures and she may start seeing a potential husband in every guy. Even if a man is already married, she may still think it’s possible to somehow become his one and only.

But men are scared by women who are too pushy, Blavatskaia points out. She advises women to “take it a notch down”. No need to stop trying to find a decent man, but don’t be too pushy to avoid scaring him.

Tips for Russian ladies in search of partners

What do you think about these dating tips?

Isn’t it any wonder that being overwhelmed with messages like this Russian women start behaving passively and disinterested with men, including online encounters with potential partners. They are constantly told they shouldn’t show interest and need to take it a notch down, but at the same time the whole society’s paradigm pushes them to need a husband, if they want any social worth.

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