When you are dating women from the countries of ex-USSR, sometimes it’s hard to gather interest.
Of course, we are talking about genuine communication here when you are chatting to a lady directly, not PPL sites where you pay people to talk to you and be nice.
Find out 3 most important dating tips for men seeking love with Eastern European ladies.
So, how to make a woman interested in you?
In essence, you cannot make a woman interested in you, unless you are the right person for her. If you are the right person, then there is nothing that you need to do!
She will be interested naturally.
However, it is possible to present yourself correctly, so that she could clearly see that you are the right person.
Most men simply fail to present themselves correctly.
1. Russians and Ukrainians pay great attention to appearances
This is actually one of the greatest attraction points for western men, because Russian women are so beautiful. Actually, they look so beautiful, this would be a better way to express it.
Genetically, there are many beautiful women in the USA, Australia, UK, Europe. Some of them manage to remain beautiful in their 30s and 40s, and later in life. But the majority of western women simply don’t put that much attention on appearances, this is why they are not looking as striking as TV presenters, while many Russian girls and ladies could stand next to celebrities and look just as good.
But the other side of Russian women placing an emphasis on looking beautiful is that they expect the man to look presentable, too.
They don’t expect you to visit a beauty salon weekly as they do and spend 1-2 hours on makeup and hair daily, plus another hour in the gym. They just want you to be dressed well on the photo that you uploaded into your profile.
Most guys on Elenasmodels.com upload photos in shorts and T-shirts, often wrinkled, messy hair etc.
The men who have neat shots in suits and white shirts stand out.
If you simply have a photo in a jacket and a white shirt in your profile as the primary picture, this would drastically change your results on EM.
2. Ladies want to know you are looking for a long-term partnership
Since you live in different countries, the only possible way for you to be together long-term is to get married. You won’t be able to bring a lady to live with you in your country without filling in the documentation that states you plan to get married. In some countries such as Canada you can only bring your spouse.
Having serious intentions means you understand this requirement and this is what ladies want to see in your profile straight away. They don’t want to question you about it.
Simply include one of these phrases in the first 1-2 lines of your profile:
- I am looking for a wife.
- I want to get married.
- I want to create a family.
It’s not enough to say you are looking for a partner: For Russian women, this means you simply want to live together without getting married, which is frowned upon in Russia and seen as a man “using a woman”. She definitely doesn’t want to be used, so she will skip such profiles.
The precise language is very important. Use one of the 3 phrases above to give the woman the correct impression about your goals.
3. Women want to know that you are ready to organize a personal meeting.
Many men think that a lady can simply buy a ticket and come to see them in the USA, UK, or Australia.
In reality, this is only possible if she already has been to your country and holds a valid entry visa now. Otherwise, she won’t be able to obtain a visa to fly to you.
Immigration authorities know what typically happens and a young lady visiting a single man is the situation that fits the visa for a prospective partner, and not a tourist visa, as simple as that. If you lie to authorities, then your chances to bring the lady to the country permanently are slim to none, since immigration officers has seen all lies and really despise people who think they are idiots.
If you are in Europe, except the UK, then a woman from Ukraine or Russia can visit you. Russians get Shengen visas rather easily and Ukrainians don’t need a visa to enter countries of the European Union.
However, even in this case there is the question of the personal meeting. She doesn’t have the money to pay for the tickets: Her wage is 1/5 to 1/10 of your wage, but prices for tickets are the same for you and her.
This means, you will need to either visit her or pay for the tickets for her to visit you.
If you are OK with that, then she would love to know it upfront.
Include this phrase in your profile:
- If we decide that we are right for each other, I will organize our personal meeting.
These 3 points in your profile on the site are the most important to make a woman interested
Of course, there are plenty of other things that would help you to develop a great relationship with a woman who would stick with you through thick and thin.
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