If you’d like to marry a woman 25 years younger, this article will explain to you how to bring this ambition to life.
Research says that many people have had relations with someone much older or younger during their lives. Usually, for most people it remains short-lived, however, we all know couples who transformed their April-September romances into a marriage: Angelina and Billy Bob, Demi and Ashton… well, these didn’t end well. But we also have Harrison and Calista (22 years gap), Michael and Catherine (25 years), Alec and Hilaria Baldwin (26 years), and Bruce Willis is now married to Emma Heming, who is 23 years his junior. And of course there is Woody Allen and Soon Yi (35 years), oh maybe better don’t mention them, this one is a bit off the beaten path. And surely, the king of cradle snatchers: Hugh Hefner and Crystal (60-year gap).
So… Can it work? Evidently, it can. If you’d like to be the man who marries a woman 25 years younger, this is what you need.
Cash in the bank
Usually the man who can convince a woman 25 years his junior to marry him will be quite rich or, at the very least, extremely charismatic (a former senator or a leader of a motorbike gang, for example). Rich and famous is the best. Younger women are easily seduced by the lifestyle.
Passion for life
Men who join in matrimonial with younger ladies usually have a burning passion for life and a personality larger than Eiffel Tower. Their excitement and enthusiasm are magnetic. Their zest for life is contagious. They light up the place wherever they go.
Iron-clad confidence
If you worry that your younger wife may leave you one day, she will. You need the confidence of the 80-year-old billionaire, who, being questioned about his marriage to an 18-year-old and pointed out that he would be 90 and she would be 28, answered: “Well, I can always divorce her and marry another 18-year-old”.
Professional excellence
Their confidence often comes from the place of professional excellence rather than money alone (money is the by-product of their certified brilliance). Men who marry younger women are experts in their fields.
Good physical shape
The biggest concern of younger women marrying older men is whether husbands will be able to keep up with them. You should be ready to demonstrate your stamina by pulling a few all-nighters in dance clubs, although you don’t have to dance yourself, but being there for your girl will be required. If you have a hard body and enjoy daily workouts, it definitely will be of assistance. Training in martial arts or boxing would make you very attractive in the eyes of a younger woman. Your energy has to be higher than hers; SHE should not be able to keep up with YOU.
Great erections and technique
Apparently, no one in the world uses Viagra, but the company keeps posting billion-dollar profits. If it’s working today, it doesn’t mean forever. You need to also have quite a bit of skill in the bedroom department, and be able to guarantee satisfaction to your younger partner. Rumour has it that 90% of men have no idea how female sexuality works and are pretty lousy lovers. And, obviously, you need a body that is pleasant to touch.
Fashion sense
Good-looking young blokes with gym bodies can afford a fashion faux pas or two, but you cannot. Expensive clothes and impeccable style will be required for the duration of your courtship, and all the years thereafter. And no, you cannot allow your younger wife to buy your clothes. You have to be elegant in your own right.
Cosmetic works
Yes, men age slightly slower than women, but maybe only by 5 years, not 25. Consider some Botox (necessary every 3 months), hair implants (if needed), or just shave your heard like Bruce. Facials, massages to get rid of muscle tightness, moisturizing and exfoliating, waxing and grooming, all the things that women do to appear visibly younger should become your usual routine.
Cucumber coolness
Carrying yourself with the grace of a black panther and hypnotizing service personnel into full attention with just the turn of your head or a 2-second glance, that’s the type of coolness we are talking about. This means, you can get into any prestige club without standing in the queue for mere mortals, even though it’s your first visit to the city. They just know by the way you carry yourself that you belong. You never get angry and able to solve any problem in a calm and positive way.
Enjoyable personality
Men who marry women 25 years younger are positive and fun to be with. They are not tyrants or complainers, they are active, strong, and flexible, they take feedback, seek advice and make adjustments, which helps them to achieve their goals. They are ambitious and goal oriented, and this is why they have managed to achieve so much in their lives. They have a light-hearted sense of humour and never take themselves too seriously.
Courtship skills
The last but not the least is your courtship proficiency. You know how to be a gentleman looking after a lady. Offering her your hand, opening doors, and moving chairs for her comes to you naturally, and you don’t need to think what you “should” do, you just know exactly what’s needed in the situation.
Conclusion
So, you think you have what it takes to marry a woman 25 years younger? Then check your profile and make sure all these points come through loud and clear through your photos, texts, and letters! And good luck! 😉
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Several years ago when I was 25 I’ve dated an Italian man who was 60, we had 35 years gap but he looked like he was 40!!! I couldn’t guess his real age until I saw his passport!!!
And Elena, you are right, he had everything you’ve described in this post 😉
The only problem was that he couldn’t have children, that’s why we parted..
It’s like the 75 year old who arrived at the party with a stunningly sexy 25 year old blond clinging to him. His friends all wondered where he found such a blond bombshell. When she excused herself to go powder her nose they asked him where he got this girlfriend. “It’s not my girlfriend’ he answered. “it’s my wife”. “What???” they asked. “How did you manage to convince her to marry you?” “I lied to her about my age” the man replied. “Did you tell her you were 55?” his friends asked. “No” the man said. “I told her I’m… Read more »
Auret, it’s actually the other way around: young girls are not looking for old grandpas. It’s old grandpas that are looking for young girls. And it’s very doubtful that a man who managed to earn millions will enter a setup where his young wife sleeps around and spends his millions while he is dying a lonely death. Usually men who manage to marry a woman 25 years younger know what they are doing. My point here is that there are not many guys who are actually capable of attracting a much younger woman, and it takes more than just a… Read more »
If it is the old men looking for young girls, why do the girls state on their profile “looking for a man 18 – 65 years old? Elena, kissing is very important. Kissing with eyes open, looking into each other’s eyes while kissing. This is the answer.
Kissing with open eyes? That’s the sign of a crazy person. No kidding — it is!
But this article is “tongue in cheek”, if you didn’t get it.
About girls saying they are looking for a man 18-65 years old, where did you find them?
On PPL sites with fake brides? 😀
Of course, they’ll take money from any idiot who is stupid enough to believe it!
Sounds to me like you’re just parroting stereotypes. The fact is that some girls are like you describe. Looking for money and security. But even then, you can’t say that they don’t care. Many dream of a man who has the money and the charm. Also, people come in all types. You never know what kind of fetish you will run into. There’s a girl (on this site in fact) who openly admits to being infatuated with older men. It’s not that common of a fetish, but it’s not unheard of. She’s not just after money, She’s honestly interested in… Read more »
You could not be more wrong! I have an older boyfriend who is 25 years older. He is not wealthy but not poor. I am 34 and he is 59. He had everything on this list except for the cash in the bank. We get odd looks everywhere we go, mostly because I look about 10 years younger than I am lol but he’s had a good life, if not great spread out his 59, me…I’ve lived more than most in just my short 34. So we can communicate on the same intellectual level, which is refreshing after a divorce… Read more »
Sarah, good on you. Enjoy it while it lasts but don’t feel that you have to be attached to the same person forever. Some younger women get so used to “proving” they enjoy the relationship with a much older partner, they feel they will lose face if they walk away. You can be with whomever you want – as long as you are happy!
??? Are you promoting marriage and long term relationships here, or being selfish and moving on when we become ‘bored’? Should the men also dump these girls for younger ones……”as long as they are happy?”
Gabe Asher, I am promoting neither marriage nor long term relationships. Nor I am advocating marrying a woman 25 years younger. It’s possible and both people can be happy in such relations and sometimes such unions can last for a long time. But there is nothing wrong with the short term approach either. It all depends where you are in your life and what you want. There is no point in being in a relationship where you don’t want to be or where the other partner is unhappy. You only have 1 life and why waste it on being in… Read more »
Dear Sarah, i see you are very energetic in defending your relationship. As a woman who has been in one age gap relationship that started when i was 30 i can ask you some questions. Are you on the same page with your bf regarding children? Believe me, this is what comes down to when starting a family. While dating is fun, a family is still a family and for most people is more than 2. Did you think long and hard about the future? While the present is great and an older man knows how to treat a lady,… Read more »
I was waiting for the punchline…thought she was telling a joke
I am a guy who looks only 10 years younger than my age and am attracted to women 30 to 40 years younger. I believe the main secret of success in being with them more than once is that my bedroom talents are desired. Your comment that most men are lousy lovers has been the driving force for many years to make me more knowledgeable about women’s sexual needs , desires, and cravings to which I direct my efforts with success. I am glad my lovers have enjoyed their sexual experience with me. I must confess I do not see… Read more »
Bob,
They lied to you)))
do not be naive…
30 y o want few years older or few years younger and 40 y o same.
Women lie sometimes (most of the time) to make you feel better)))
lol so true, they were probably all escorts, men are so delusional
nothing wrong with hookers
I agree with ray.
I think these relationships can work if both parties accept and acknowledge the hidden agenda
The hidden agenda often is that both a man and a woman think that their initial hormonal rush is the “true love” that should last forever. If the man, who is older and more mature, accepts that this relationship is not for life but for a time, then the relationship can be fun for both while it lasts. More often than not men who marry a woman 25 years younger can hope for 5-10 years, until she matures and changes her life views.
I have known a couple men who were married to women almost 20 years younger. One — a father and stepmother of a girlfriend) — had been married for 10+ years. You could tell the couple honestly cared about each other and had a nice, relaxed relationship. Most of us have met and befriended someone 20 years older or younger than ourselves. We had a nice relationship with them and genuinely enjoyed their company. When you boil it down, what is a wife (or husband), but a friend you deeply care about and feel a strong attachment towards? Yes, there… Read more »
Mike, I have no problem with any age difference. There are people who like marrying women 60 years younger, or women who are 80 married to 40-year-old studs, who am I to judge. Just realize what you are against, and be prepared that a young woman’s priorities and views in life will change with time. This can happen in 10 years, or 5, or 2, or maybe never if you are lucky. Maybe you are going to leave her for another 25-year-old, and not the other way around; this happens in Russia and Ukraine a lot. My point is that… Read more »
I have enjoyed reading this blog Elina. I have been traveling to Russia and CIS for business since 2005. Having spent many days with clients and support people on projects. I have rubbed elbows with the whole spectrum of folks from the ultra rich to the common engineer. I built relationships and deep friendships there and invited to stay in homes where we spent all day in the kitchen cooking having drinks, wearing massive coats standing outside at night cooking shashlik. I spent this wonderful time picking up the language (rudimentary) and gaining a deep understanding of the culture and… Read more »
Douglas, thank you for taking the time to write. Good luck in your search!
When dating younger women I’ve always gone with the adage that tomorrow is promised to no one. You may live to be 150 and she may walk in front of a bus tomorrow while texting. You never know. In any event the worst thing to do is not to try regardless of any age difference.
To marry a woman who could be one owns child is to much a difference. But 5-15 years difference is acceptable.
What if as a man your life’s path meant you were not emotionally open to relationships until well past the age when most people have married and had children? What if aged 50 you have not been married, have not had children for cogent reasons but are now ready to do both? Whilst there is no absolute body clock for men, there is for women. So you need to find a fertile woman if you want a family. I have little time for people telling people in their 40s that they must condemn themselves to a life of childlessness because… Read more »
Rhys, There is plenty of women in their late 30s and early 40s who dream to be mothers. They will worship a man who helps them fulfill their aspirations. There are also mothers with young children who’d love to meet not only a loving partner for themselves but also a kind step-father for their children. If you marry a woman 25 years younger, do you expect your marriage to last beyond 5-8 years? Most likely, it won’t. What are you going to do then? Marriage is built on physical attraction and mutual goals. Young women do get attracted to older… Read more »
I am having fun reading all the negatives about+20 year marriages. I married Olga in 2001. She was 36 and me 56, yes 20, well almost, years difference. Olga passed away last year at 55 from complications with breast cancer. I can honestly say, we need had an argument. Discussions yes, but we never argued. Well, she did ask me two months before she passed, why didn’t we have a child. I answered, well Olga, you didn’t want this, and made it clear that you felt this way. She said then, well why didn’t you argue and tell me I… Read more »
Bill, true love is hard to find. It’s great you have had this most amazing experience in your life, and found the woman to share this experience with. I am terribly sorry for your loss.
Thanks Elena. This blog was helpful as I’m also trying to find/marry a younger woman. She doesn’t need to be 25 years younger. Twelve years younger would be just fine. Now I know the areas to focus on. 🙂
if you are fat then u have to low your standards also ( 12 years is a huge gap by the way), it will not last
Hi Elena, Today I’ve been reading some of the blogs on the site. I must say I like your sensible comments on all the guys smart en stupid replies. Also the way you describe meeting younger girls, types of women, etc..is all very true and I’ve learned something today that has opened my eyes, a bit. I’ve been on the site some time, and must admit I’m the dreamer type. Although I’m not a paying member at the moment I might be in the near future, as I’ve just come out of a relationship that didn’t work, then I don’t… Read more »
Gerard, thank you for the kind words.
However, if you are all about money, go with Dutch sites.
I just know that there is absolutely no other site that spends this much money and effort on “making it real” – real people with real dreams, aspirations, and words.
(If you are all about family, go with EM. Russian-Ukrainian women are crazy about family; I am trying to tell them to make a career for themselves and enjoy the rewards, and they are like: “Family, family, family! Kids, kids, kids!” So, I guess, it’s pointless to argue. 🙂 )
Ok, got it. Thanks for your quick response. Indeed, I will probably not get that on a dutch site :).
You’re making a great argument too..who doesn’t want that…well maybe dutch women, they want a career for themselves and select a man with a (too) long list.. We all have a list, but let’s be realistic.
Btw, you look great too, single? 😉
Hi Elena I’m relieved I found your site. I just recently was curious regarding the Russian/Ukrainian ladies. Of course I joined a popular heavily advertised online website. A pay per letter system. Buying credits. I was doing my research though. I did spend some money on the pay per letter system but only after narrowing down to a few contacts. Of course my letters were edited if I put in an alternate email for outside contact. Anyhow, I researched what you offer in comparison and I feel you are fair with your pricing. At least if someone contacts me on… Read more »
You, guys, keep talking about young girls in their 20-s. But you seem to forget about other age category – women in their 40-s. Many of us, women of 40+ just HAVE to accept 25 years our seniors. Why? Because men of our own age DON’T WANT US!!! They prefer much younger girls!!! What else is left for us to do??? Just, unlike 20 y.o. girls, we usually stay with our husbands till the rest of our lives. Because we know that nobody will want us in our 50-s (I’m talking about common women, not celebrities or rich ones). This… Read more »
Why people what to marry somebody younger or elder? I can not get it. Its much better to be in about the same age with your partner, cus u have the same goals, feelings and values.
Wow! This is exactly what I was looking for. Personally, I think the only goal that pushes women to marry older men is money. Basically, you have confirmed it. However, this opinion makes you think about life values.
Not at all! I just met a man 30 y older than me and it’s the first time in my life that I’ve been treated so well by a man. Plus he’s very funny and he knows a lot of things. We have the same interest and he’s more energetic than most of the men my same age! And guess what? He’s not rich and i don’t care. If i feel good when I’m with him that’s all I care! When we go out we take turn paying and i love it that way. I actually hate when younger men… Read more »
I would also add here one more tip: “A wish to be a father again”. When a man is much more older than a woman, it is likely that this woman still does not have babies. Of course one day she will ask about it her man. But many old men are already afraid of being father because of their age. So, in order to avoid frustration it is necessary to be sure about yourself or to meet women already having children from another man.
As for me I don’t approve these relationships. I think age difference can be between 1-10 years maximum. If you had some arguments, i would wait for answer
less than 10 years… I would say “3 years younger or 5-6 years older for both sides)
My argument is simple: I don’t need your approval. But, I respect your right to have and express any opinion you wish.
🙂 totally agree!
There is also another factor at play in these relationships. I see it even with American women where they are now looking at older men. A friend of mine is 52 and dating a girl in her early 30s. Her younger sister is single and without a boyfriend and complains how all the men in her age group that she comes to contact with are effeminate and she finds them unattractive. The other issue is economic. The unemployment and underemployment rates for young adults are staggering. If a young woman wants to have a man that can provide for a… Read more »
Mark,
If you are open to marrying a woman 25 years younger, the first thing to sort out is your understanding that she will change. If she finds you attractive today, it doesn’t mean forever.
If you are ok with that, then go ahead. We only live once. When you are 90, you will have something to remember.
It is really possible to marry a woman who is for example 25 years younger. But there are two main differences among these women. Some of them really love the man they want to marry, but for the other women something else is more important than the differences in age. But a lot of men understand that money is on the first place but anyway they agree to live together with such mercantile women. They are very pleasant to look at and they are just like pictures men want to get pleasure of. If everything is ok for both parts… Read more »
Dear Elena,
If a man is ,let’s say, between 33 and 40 years old what is the age interval for women she could look out?
Also have you had some success story with women from the CIS and Romania?(I am Romanian)
Adrian,
A man 33-40 can easily meet a woman of any age.
30-45 is the absolutely most desirable age for girls from 18+ to mature ladies 55+. You are mature enough and still young enough.
We have quite a lot of men from the former Eastern European countries using our site to meet Slavic girls. Russian and Ukrainian women like European men, as it’s closer to visit families at home. It’s also easier to visit the lady for you, if there is a connection.
excuse me, I meant he could, not she could.